Regardless of what you've heard, women would much rather you approach them than vice-versa.

If you think about it, this makes perfect sense. Part of being a man is taking leadership.

Women are attracted to a man who "goes after what he wants". Initiative and ambition are masculine traits that ignite femininity.

What's more, if "approach anxiety" is such a universal issue among men all over the world, who are we to think that women are going...

I know what you're thinking. You've been told a thousand times NOT to ask women what they think of you straight up.

Especially on first dates.


"So, do you think this date is going well?"

"Can you picture yourself going out on a second date with me?"

"Do you think I look like my pictures?"


Those questions telegraph desperation and are sure to cause a woman to second-guess your masculine...

You know, my parents have been happily married for over 55 years. They met in high school and married while still teenagers.

Contrary to the naysayers who no doubt told them they were "too young", or whatever, they are still together.

In fact, all I've ever seen demonstrated for me by my parents was the paragon of health and happiness in a relationship.

So leave it to me to be the first divorced one in the history of either side of the family. ...

There is some commotion among dating experts over whether a "first meeting" and a "first date" are the same thing or not.

I happen to believe they are not.

Assuming that's true, the best way I know how to make the point is to define the differences that set them apart.

In my mind, a "first date" refers to an event where both the man and the woman KNOW they're there because they're clearly interested in each other romantically....

There aren't many dating coaches who write about how to handle potential conflict situations presented by other guys who have their eye on the same woman you do.

That's probably because it's not a particularly fun or amusing subject to talk about.

But the fact remains that you've got to know how to handle yourself when faced with sudden--and perhaps obnoxious--competition.

Such sticky situations can take various forms depending on the scenario, but today I...

Today I'm going to share with you something that's going to seem impossibly basic on the surface--almost bare-bones.

But even though we may understand the fundamental basics of what I'm going to talk about at the instinctive gut-felt level, relatively few guys walking this Earth really get it right in real-world interactions with others--men OR women.

Here's the thing: Even though we know we should always GIVE more than we TAKE during the course of social interactions,...

It's Saturday and a lot of you guys will be heading out later to meet with a great woman...and you don't want to mess it up.

It seems like we're always looking for brain-dead simple ways to make sure we ace that all-important first meeting, right?

Well, as always, you should definitely focus on HER comfort instead of worrying about whether YOU are going to mess up or not.

And yes...instead of concerning yourself whether to hug her or shake her hand when you...

You smile at a cute guy across the room. He saunters over. And you start talking.

Things are going great…

Until the music starts blaring. Making talking impossible.

And the lights dim. Making it hard to see each other.

People dance, bumping into you. Which is distracting.

Both of you are frustrated. And it’s killing the mood.

You’d ask the guy to leave with you. But you barely know him.

Bad venues are...

A lot of people are in difficult situations.

Some of them feel like the deck is stacked against them.

Some of them feel crushed and defeated, separated from the people that they love.

Some of them feel powerless to do anything to improve things between them and their ex.

Some of them feel as if hope is slipping away through their fingers.

That’s why, today, I wanted to have a serious talk with you about whether or not there’s hope...

I've gotten numerous e-mails asking about New Year's Eve, and more specifically how to how to make it a great night as far as success with the ladies is concerned.

I figured I'd better get some ideas out to you today so that you'd have at least some time to think about it and prepare accordingly.

So let's get on with it. Here are my three best tips...the first for guys who are single, the second for guys who are dating someone casually, and the third for those of you who...

Most guys report that they have absolutely no idea when women are attracted to them.

This is probably because we consider ourselves to be all about seeing things in "black and white", whereas women tend to be creatures of subtlety--at least when it comes to showing interest in a man.

Let's camp on that thought for a brief moment.

Most of us as guys automatically assume that women are creatures of subtlety in general--because that's what we've been...

Alright, you know I'm not a doctor. So this isn't going to be about how to get over a hangover.

At least not the kind that's caused by guzzling too many brewskis or "Jager Bombs" the night before, that is.

BUT...it is indeed Saturday morning for most of you reading this. And if you went out on the town last night with the goal of meeting some women but came up empty handed, I fully understand that you're probably still sick to your stomach about it and your head...

A lot of people have the wrong idea when it comes to getting their ex back.

Maybe even you do too.

Let me explain...


One day I was hiking with some friends and I learned about a strange thing that happens when some tourists visit Paris.

They have this idealized vision of Paris in their minds. Happy people walking down the street. Romance. Bicycles. Baguettes. Crepes. The whole deal....

Frustration is at an all time high.

More than ever before we as men are confronted with ever-increasing confusion about what we're supposed to do and even who we're supposed to be.

In recent months there has been an unmistakably sharp increase in the negative tone, of course. As if it wasn't already at a fever pitch for the last several years, the message is louder than ever from angry women warning us to KEEP AWAY.

As if feeling invisible to women isn't bad...

You know, you might want to carefully consider just HOW attractive to amazing women you want to become.

Why is that? Simple. At some stage there becomes a point of diminishing returns.

At this point you may be thinking that I've got to be kidding. I mean, after all...how in the world can becoming BETTER with women mean LESS overall action with them?

Well, think of it this way.

Perhaps you've seen a woman--either online or in real life--and...