Here’s 10 reasons you need to drop the Non-Committal, Emotionally Unavailable Guy FAST (and it’s not just because “it’s the right thing to do”)


Drop Him Reason #1 – It's Emotionally DRAINING

You know the saying that if you want something bad enough, you should work hard to get it? Well, the second half of that saying is, if you want something bad enough, you should work hard for it, but you should also check the feedback that you’re getting.

If you’re...

It's very common for guys not to have a clear idea of what they really want in a woman.

And as you probably know by now, I have a device I call The Depth Chart that I recommend in such cases.

Essentially, what you do is identify the ten most important factors to you when it comes to evaluating great woman, assign each factor ten points, and proceed to (quite literally) grade every woman you date accordingly.

The Depth Chart is especially effective for helping...

There's plenty of advice out there about how to make sure the first date goes well.

You can even get a great report on how to get the first date AND ace it right there on my main website.

But what you don't hear about very often are the ways that so many of us tend to blow it on second dates.

Here are seven classic blunders to avoid the second time you meet up with a woman, even if the first date went perfectly well:


1) Going to the exact...

One thing that we value in each other as men is reliability.

One of the ways we measure a real man--and a real friend--is that the dude just straight-up does what he says he's going to do.

He gets the job done, and he's got your back.

It's no wonder then that we really want to pull our hair out when a woman SAYS she wants to hear from us and/or go out on a date with us...only to either feed us a lame excuse or even fall off the face of the Earth later....

A number of years back, something called the Prevent Defense came into vogue in the National Football League.

Essentially a defensive set featuring a whopping seven defensive backs (four is typical), the strategy was developed as a way to "prevent" long pass plays from happening.

The theory behind the Prevent Defense is simple.

If your team is up by a touchdown or more late enough in the fourth quarter that the opposing team's only apparent hope...

You know, the messages I get from you guys generally say that Massage Your Date is working really well for you.

But I do get asked a lot about what it takes to actually get into the position of giving a girl a massage to begin with.

That's a good, fair question to ask, I'd say.

So to me, flirting with women has always been key. And flirting is all about giving and receiving signals. It's the kind of sexual subscommunication that men and women tend to engage...

Frankly, some guys (and there are at least dozens out there, apparently) are flat-out convinced that women have all the power and that's just the way it is.

They think I'm stark raving nuts to even suggest otherwise.

I couldn't help but turn my thoughts toward wondering how in the world a man could become SO convinced that he could NEVER have any power when it comes to women.

The only answer I could come up with is that he has been CHASING women for so blasted...

There's never a shortage of information on how to be a scintillating conversationalist. After all, if a woman finds you interesting, she'll want MORE of you.

But oftentimes in life, one of the best ways to really grasp a concept is to learn what NOT to do as well.

With that in mind (and after enduring years of listening to engineers with IQs of about 200 talk about they personally believe is "fascinating"), I've come up with a fairly quick list of 9 patterns...

As you know, a lot of energy is spent by guys all over the world on figuring out how to approach women.

And lately, there's also been quite a bit of talk about the idea of getting women to approach us first.

That's all well and good, although I'll stand firmly by my statement that a woman respects a man more who approaches her first, at least under "normal" circumstances.

But hey...I'll be the first to admit that there are some bold, spunky chicks...

One of the great things about this article is that all kinds of guys of all ages read it.

Some of you are 18 years old and just getting started with all of this. Meanwhile, the oldest guy I've heard from is 88, and yes he's out there meeting women.

This makes it somewhat difficult for me to write about "age gap" related stuff while keeping it relevant to most of you.

Today's topic is exceptional, though. It's about WHY younger women tend to go for...

Is there a woman in your world who you've developed some sort of "bad blood" with?

If you've committed some sort of egregious felony against her, that's one thing. But I think most of us have at least one woman in our lives who we're not getting along with, all because of some rift that was relatively minor.

Maybe the two of you USED to be cool with each other. It's quite possible there was even mutual attraction.

Then SOMETHING weird happened and...

Somewhere there's a "dark corner" of your past that you'd prefer nobody found out about. You'd love to keep it secret from just about everyone you know, and maybe even forget about it yourself...as if it never even happened.

Under normal, day-to-day circumstances we typically find it pretty easy to keep our mouths shut.

We don't go volunteering information about our prison record and/or our former heroin addiction to hiring managers during job interviews, do...

A lot of guys have heard that the best way to stay out of the “Just Be Friends Zone” is to start touching the woman you’re interacting with as early on as you can.

After all, this has sort of become a default teaching over the years in men’s dating advice.

Well, I have to tell you that I’m not sure that’s the right mindset to have when meeting women.

I mean, yeah…we all want to get our hands on sexy women. And I realize that waiting sucks. Lots...

I've sensed the need to write about the subject of this article for quite some time, yet I've been reticent to because I don't believe in being "sex focused".

Ultimately, being on a desperate mission to bed a woman as soon as possible after meeting her is a newbie mindset.

Truth: Guys who are trying to "get laid" tend to be the least laid guys I know. I've said that before, and it's true.

But that doesn't keep most of us from dreaming of...

An amazing number of people in general are hopelessly boring, aren’t they?

The weird part is they usually realize it. Not only will most people admit they lead dull, unexciting lives, some even seem proud of it.

But not everyone so affected is happy with his or her boring life.

I get calls and e-mails from both men and women all the time asking ways to become more exciting and intriguing to others...not just MOTOS (members of the other sex), mind you, but ...