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This is a difficult one and hard to explain, I've been married 19 years to Doug who is 10 years older than me. We have 3 children aged 16, 14 and 10. he has his own successful business and we want for nothing. I kind of gave up work when we had out first child but i was a secretary and do do help him with invoices and such like before the business grow. As a family we want for nothing and nor do I. Doug is very confident and was a bit of a ladies man - he owned a flat above some shopping the centre of town where we live - I knew this when I married him - and if I'm honest it was part of the attraction as i had seen him a about plenty of times with women. This is where it gets a bit difficult to explain I guess he can be a bit controlling at times and I know he's been unfaithful but he is a good father with the children, our oldest two are boys and takes them to football and football training and I love him I really do. I've wanted to write something for ages but don't really know how to express myself. As I say we want for nothing and have a very good lifestyle and I'd hate to leave him as the children really love him too, what do you think I should do?
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Hi Something I forgot to say was that my dad whose 74 lives with us and he really likes Doug. -
I didn't get any responses which I kinda expected, still it doesn't matter I'm not leaving DougComment
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In cuckolding, the bull plays a crucial but delicate role.
He is not the hero, nor the competitor.
He is the guest invited into a couple’s private world.
SwingersNest couples repeatedly highlight the qualities that truly matter:
Respect.
Patience.
Emotional intelligence.
An ability to understand that the marriage is the center of the dynamic.
When a bull respects the relationship’s boundaries, the experience becomes harmonious. When he tries to dominate the emotional space, the dynamic collapses.
A good bull enhances connection.
A bad bull disrupts it.
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Do you think I should stay with him then or go?Comment
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