Confusion over ex s behaviour.....

[rustyhandsman]

Hi, Me 43M her 37F I have not seen my ex for a few years and have not communicated with her since our breakup as her wishes. In the last few years she has used her new partner now husband to contact me everything they have an important life event, such as moving in together ,engagement getting married etc etc.

I have checked in on her social media intermittently and notice she is sticking it to me with cryptic things I would only know about. I recently received two sms messages from 2 diff USA numbers making it clear that they have been to my business website. I live in Australia.

Has anyone else seen this sort of behaviour so long after a relationship finishes? Its got me astounded ?

[openleaf]

That does sound unusual, especially after so much time has passed. Sometimes people hang onto unresolved feelings and it shows up in strange ways, but that really reflects where they’re at—not you. For your own peace of mind, it could help to set boundaries, ignore the messages, or block the numbers. If it still weighs on you, talking it through with a professional might give you some clarity and relief. It’s worth giving it a try.