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this would be a bit long story but I will try my best to make it short as possible. So I have been married for 10 years after hwving 6 years of being in a relationship with my wife but throughout the years it was msinly a long distance relationship as we were in two different countries even until the first four years of our marriage. We married in 2015 however due to visa issues we couldn’t be together until 2019 but during that time i visited her couple of times. The issue that I’m pointing out started around 2020/2021 where my wife started to have a chat friend from his previous work it was not actually a regular chat at first as she told me about it. But I had full faith on her but things went on the wrong side and both my wife and other other guy became close that they kinda fell for each other. I know all this as I have seen their chats. Few times i confronted her to stop but it went on and it was ruining my mind. I found out my wife has sent few pics of her wearing a see through night dress and also a video clip while she was having bath. And in 2022 we went to our come county for a vacation there she was planning to meet him in a hotel. Also I have seen thier erotic chats as well and that guy has sent her a video of him showing his C*** masturebating where my wife has requested from him earlier to send as she wants to see his one. I was so helpless and during that time i suffered a lot thinking sbout this couldn’t sleep and work. However during our vacation we had a discussion about it and told my wife to stop the chatting and I forgave her for what she did. But i couldn’t stop thinking about it since then even sometimes at night I wake up having those chats coming into my mind. Well there’s much more important point I have to make, fot all these years we haven’t had sex at all I mean we have tried many times but the actually act didn’t went at all just only the foreplay And she would end up giving me a bj. So she was pointing that she was neglected that’s why her mind went astray hsving that chat. And recently I have been going through a similar situation with al the memories in mind I fell for another woman we chatted and it went too far that I had sex fot the first time with her as well. Now I can’t forget that woman as I think I’m having a strong bond with her and the feeling I had wasn’t the same with my wife I know we have been together for 16 years but I feel different with that woman whom i now love her. My heart wants her but sometimes it makes me sad if I’m doing a wrong thing to my wife coz we are going for a devorce since I have no feelings for her . Even thoug we didn’t have a good physical relationship we had a strong emotional bond between us. I’m struggling to make up my mind of what to decide. We have been separated for the past 3,4 months and I have lost the love that I had for my wife. Going to a devorce is the best option I have here ? Please let me know your thoughts on this
this would be a bit long story but I will try my best to make it short as possible. So I have been married for 10 years after hwving 6 years of being in a relationship with my wife but throughout the years it was msinly a long distance relationship as we were in two different countries even until the first four years of our marriage. We married in 2015 however due to visa issues we couldn’t be together until 2019 but during that time i visited her couple of times. The issue that I’m pointing out started around 2020/2021 where my wife started to have a chat friend from his previous work it was not actually a regular chat at first as she told me about it. But I had full faith on her but things went on the wrong side and both my wife and other other guy became close that they kinda fell for each other. I know all this as I have seen their chats. Few times i confronted her to stop but it went on and it was ruining my mind. I found out my wife has sent few pics of her wearing a see through night dress and also a video clip while she was having bath. And in 2022 we went to our come county for a vacation there she was planning to meet him in a hotel. Also I have seen thier erotic chats as well and that guy has sent her a video of him showing his C*** masturebating where my wife has requested from him earlier to send as she wants to see his one. I was so helpless and during that time i suffered a lot thinking sbout this couldn’t sleep and work. However during our vacation we had a discussion about it and told my wife to stop the chatting and I forgave her for what she did. But i couldn’t stop thinking about it since then even sometimes at night I wake up having those chats coming into my mind. Well there’s much more important point I have to make, fot all these years we haven’t had sex at all I mean we have tried many times but the actually act didn’t went at all just only the foreplay And she would end up giving me a bj. So she was pointing that she was neglected that’s why her mind went astray hsving that chat. And recently I have been going through a similar situation with al the memories in mind I fell for another woman we chatted and it went too far that I had sex fot the first time with her as well. Now I can’t forget that woman as I think I’m having a strong bond with her and the feeling I had wasn’t the same with my wife I know we have been together for 16 years but I feel different with that woman whom i now love her. My heart wants her but sometimes it makes me sad if I’m doing a wrong thing to my wife coz we are going for a devorce since I have no feelings for her . Even thoug we didn’t have a good physical relationship we had a strong emotional bond between us. I’m struggling to make up my mind of what to decide. We have been separated for the past 3,4 months and I have lost the love that I had for my wife. Going to a devorce is the best option I have here ? Please let me know your thoughts on this
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