Help with my marriage

[Anonymous86]

I need some help regarding my marriage.
I have been happily married to my wife (same sex relationship) for almost 5 years.
She has recently had her ex contact her via text and is flirting with her openly.
When I asked her about it my wife gave me her phone and let me read the messages and she told me that her ex had been in to her workplace recently to see her.
She says she loves me and has no interest in getting back with her ex and says that it is flirty banter and her ex knows where she stands.
I'm not sure how to feel about this, I don't like her flirting especially not with her ex but I trust that it's me she loves and wants to be with.
she was open enough to let me read her messages and admits that it's flirting, am I in the wrong for not liking it?
my wife means everything to me, should I be concerned and what should I do?

[Anthony]

Since she has assured you about her love for you, then there is nothing to be worried about. Moreover, she's an adult and knows what she wants.

[Ashley]

If you trust your wife, you should have no problem doubting her words. However, if you aren't comfortable with her flirting with her ex, tell her to stop communicating with her ex immediately.

[TrueBlueGal]

It's NOT appropriate nor respectful of YOU for her to flirt with an ex, AND NO, you should NOT have to take that. However, I'd approach it calmly because she was honest with you. I'd say I really appreciate your honesty, but it is a respect issue to me and if you want to be friends with your ex, that's one thing, but I would appreciate if you did NOT flirt with him because it shows a lack of respect for me.