Broken marriage

[Mamabear1989]

My husband and I have been married 3 years and been together a total of 6. We have a son who turned 1 this year too. Long story short we have had issues the entire relationship. Trust issues from him with me due to age gap (I was over 21 when we met and that was hard for him). Always fight. And I don’t want to fight with him around my son. I think we should get a divorce. I don’t love him the same anymore and I don’t think I can love him how he wants me to. I love him as a person but I’m not attracted to him anymore. I don’t think I’ll ever be happy, with him or alone for that matter. I never thought I’d get married let alone have a family. Idk what to do please help

[bunnyhabit]

how old him? fight about what? you got boyfriend, too? how him request you love him? agree to open relationship? is normal married people to fight occasionally.

[Mamabear1989]

He is 26 I am 29. No I don’t have a boyfriend. No we don’t have an open relationship nor would we agree to it. We fight about everything. The weather to finances to taking care of our son. He doesn’t request I love him any particular way but I don’t love him romantically anymore I love him as a person. He wants me to acknowledge him “it’s the little things” but what that means to him I don’t know

[Shirley]

I know exactly how you feel, but it's best to try to save your marriage rather than divorcing.

If you're like me, I'm sure you're wondering what can be done to save your marriage. Here are a few things you should avoid doing if you want to save your marriage. First, never try to devise methods to save the marriage on your own. If your marriage is headed to the divorce courts, you are probably not in a positive frame of mind to effectively handle your situation.

Second, avoid crying to your spouse about how much you love him and how sad you are about your relationship. Finally, avoid begging your spouse not to end the marriage. This makes you appear needy and insecure, which is not attractive.

[Clay]

When you first met there were forces of attraction that were powerful, and these were the forces that brought you together. So when you start having problems in the marriage you need to go back to the starting point and remember what it was that brought you together in the first instance. Most married couples when having an argument don't rationalize and their decisions are not logical. Arguments are based on emotions and when emotions run high logic walks out the door.

There are many different ways in which one can fix a marriage; for instance, marriage guidance counseling is one aspect as well as programs such as "your marriage savior system" which allows you to make use of your biological forces, which are a powerful drive that will restore that passion and spark of love once again.

Nowadays, many married couples do not take the time to sort out their differences, and marriages end up in the divorce courts. The divorce statistics are high worldwide. Marriage is not a fashion but a serious commitment between two people in love. When you take the final vows you both make the commitment in saying "I do" until death do us part as well as in sickness and in death. Think about that for a moment, these are not just words, but a serious statement made before your maker, friends and family.

The marriage savior system has been created by Michael Cross and in the past years Michael has saved several marriages from ending up in the divorce courts. Cross has built a reputation with his customers and has obtained a high success rate in saving marriages. He goes on to say that one of the biggest problems when trying to save a marriage is that one of the parties has totally lost interest. Problems in marriages usually start after a year or so as the novelty wears off and the couple start becoming bored.

If you want to fix a marriage, you need to understand the reason behind the problems and how to prevent this from happening. Once a couple starts experiencing a problem, it is the couple's priority to strive to reignite that spark once again. Men, in particular, need to know what really turns a woman on, as both men and women are genetically programmed to respond to each other sexually, which is normal as this is a means to survival of the species. Both species like to be made to feel that they are special, especially when it comes to sex.