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This a bit of a long story, I will try to keep it short as possible. I have been married for 10 years, together for 24 years. I met my husband after the father of my children and i broke up ( he cheated), My kids Dad and I dated for 7 years and very young(15 me-16 him). Our reationship ended very badly,( fighting and cursing etc). I met my husband a year after the break up. Well about 5 to 6 years ago, my kids father and I had a talk about our very bad break up, this was the first time in almost 20 years we had a civil conversation, well we talked and laughed and he told me he still loved me, I still love him also, btw he was married too, so our talks became more than that, we began a sexual relationship, we both try very hard to break it off ( because we are both married to other people), but it never last, we have a sexual chemistry that is wild, when we are near each other we can't stop smiling, flirting etc with each other. Well my ex decided that he wanted to get back together so he ask me to leave my husband and he will leave his wife, he left his wife in 2016, but i didnt leave my husband, my ex was very upset that i didnt hold up my end of this agreement. So in began dating a woman from his past ( but she was never his ex), I got jealous about the relationship, and told him we couldn't continue to sleep with each other, in 2017 he married this woman, ( we still sleep with each other). He recently proposed the same agreement to me again, leave your husband and I will leave my wife. I'm now seriously thinking about it, but I'm so confused, I don't want to make a huge mistake, I have a lot of what ifs. HELP
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The fact is that, an ex is an ex for a reason. So what makes you feel that what led to the breakup initially won't happen again.
Therefore, if you are going to get back together with him, then you should be ready to cope with those thing that made you leave him initially. So, if you know you can't cope with it, then stick with your husband. -
Just having sex with a man is completely different from staying with a man in the same house. The point is that, the way he treats you now while you both just have sex is going to be different from how he'll treat you when you move in with him to stay together. So, you should expect him to treat you nicely now because you both just have sex and depart, but expect a bad treatment when you start staying with him.
Think twice, and make your decision wisely.Comment
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