Do you ever just wanna go on a mad rant?

[Vinroe]

I'm so generally laid back and soft spoken that others find it so odd when I'm rightfully upset. It's like the universal rules everyone lives by can't apply to me. I feel like a hypocrite for being calm and smiling while my life, my relationship becomes more complicated. I want to tell off my wife and point fingers like a child. Yet I won't cause I'm an adult. I just feel sick and utterly pissed that instead of her saying something to me months ago about her feelings she waits around til she can get her head straight. In so doing she went from unsatisfied at sex life and intimacy to becoming emotionally invested in someone at work.

We have the big talk finally and even though it's clearly a mutual issue that things have changed and we don't have as much time with each other to be freaky frisky adults. Why does it feel like it's all on me? Why have I gone from being happy to worrying g moment by moment about my marriage?

Next there's a stupid dog stalking us that wants to be the family pet. It keeps coming back no matter what I do and the kids are chastising me for "being mean to the puppy".

We've been trying to get outta a MONEYPIT and into a new place but the paperwork keeps getting kicked back as incomplete.

It'd be fun to hang out with the guys and go on a bender to relieve some steam but it's a downer because I work with individuals who have problems with doing that to excess.

I work the weekends and wifey works theSweek. so during the week I'm Mr. Mom and now I'm a Cosmo articles genderbend (aka the neurotic househusband).

It's a good thing I smoke or I'd be on meds.

I had to throw it out there or I'd just scream.


Thanks for listening to a Househusband's Shout to th Universe. Sorry to the admins and mods.

[Ella]

Next there's a stupid dog stalking us that wants to be the family pet. It keeps coming back no matter what I do and the kids are chastising me for "being mean to the puppy".

I think you should accept the puppy into your home, since your kids love her. At least, that will make your kids happy!

[Brett]

Some people may believe that great tips for happy married life can be a bit apparent, however if that's the case why are there numerous unhappy marriages?

When you are on the inside of a long-term relationship, it can be extremely tough to focus on the overall image.

That's why ideally these pointers for better communication in marriage can renew your marital relationship.

Yes, of the best good marriage advice is good communication in marriage.

A marriage is nothing without communication-and that doesn't imply snapping and arguing at each other all the time-that's not genuine interaction.

When and talking and taking a relaxing seat over your day, interaction can mean no newspaper in your face or no television blaring for.

When there is an issue, it can be in letting your partner know in a direct way. Advice for a happy marriage is always about some good direct interaction.

Of the tips for happy married life includes you both, and so any scenarios or problems constantly consist of both of you.

Individuals are certainly not on a training level like animals or house-breaking your dog.

Be open to the naturalness in each of you and embrace that love.

You must from within yourself naturally make your partner happy and feel your love, and learn how to naturally connect as one-- being whole with one another.

The Course in Miracles terms this natural inner love, as being what creates the "holy relationship."

Though, if you don't honestly have good communication in marriage then you aren't being real to yourself, your partner, or your marriage.

Issues in marriages are like snowballs accumulating as they are rolling down a hill-it's much easier to stop them early.

Know the difference in between falling in love and maintaining a caring relationship.

Falling in love can typically be like being in a fantasy at first, the topic of your love can do nothing incorrect and all various areas of your brain are impaired due to your fixation with them.

Sadly, this state seldom lasts past the first couple of years of marital relationship.

Be sure to in most cases communicate with the idea of preserving a healthy and caring relationship, where you both are living the life you want.

The Course in Miracles teaches us how to "bring fantasy to Truth" for the holy relationship."

(In a previous discussion we delved into more on good relationship advice-- say from the relationship hotline of your inner core.)

Remember the theory about the word Karma?

Of the greater tips for happy married life is about putting a little karmic theory into your marriage-you get back exactly what you give.

I mean if you do everything you can to make your partner happy, the chances are they will step up their efforts to make you feel wonderful and loved.

These tips for happy married life can simply assist in the tough times, so I hope it helps you if you are seeking good marriage advice.

I'm sure you agree that a marriage is nothing without communication-and that does not indicate arguing over nonsense and snapping at each other all the time.

That certainly is not inner-- from the heart, communication in marriage. A marriage has the full potential for lasting a lifetime when there is loving, direct communication.

I'd previously written about when you're noticing signs she's seeing someone else and when it's time to let go of the relationship, and I suggest you take a look.

To a healing love relationship in your marriage!