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    One of my friends confessed that she and her husband have become "just best friends living together". They joke about it, but they know it's true. They're been married for two years now.

    She often sleeps over at her other girlfriends' house and spends a few nights at their home. They havent had sex or kissed in a year because "you don't kiss your best friend". They were a couple for 10 years before getting married and since then have bought have a huge house, 5 cars and properties in their name. She says its easier because they get to keep all the possessions, they enjoy their time apart, and have an unspoken understanding that that is what they've become.

    I asked (me being the single friend) how that will work out in the long run. She said they're just going with the flow because it's easy. She's not involved with another guy or anything like that. He might be, but she's not sure (and I dont' think she'd really care).

    I'm amused that they chose that arrangement, but as she said, it's easier. I guess I just want to hear the opinion of married people on the matter.

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    The marriage your friend is having with her husband is drifting apart. The fact is that, there will be no strong bond in a marriage without communication and intimacy. In this case, there is no intimacy in the marriage and such marriage might not last for long.

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    • miss grey
      miss grey commented
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      I guess they're just no longer interested in keeping the marriage, but civil and close enough to manage not breaking the properties apart and living together. just marriage by paper.

  • #3
    Your friend is making a big mistake in her marriage. Leaving her husband loose is a risk to her marriage, he might meet a lady who will show him so much affection and that will cause him to lose interest in his wife. When that happens, the marriage has hit a brick wall and nothing can be done at that point to save the marriage.

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    • miss grey
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      I had a chat with the husband and found out he has some sort of feelings for another woman who lives in Europe. They met on one of his work trips and they started chatting. At the end of the day after all the work is done he regularly chats with that woman until he falls asleep. She's single and knows he's married and they havent been physical, but they know "there is something". They just chat about trivial things and nothing serious and never acknowledge the feelings involved (although I'd consider it as emotional cheating?). He says a divorce would be too messy and he's also just going with the flow. I guess he doesn't feel enough for her to mess up his current setting with his wife.

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    I had a chat with the husband and found out he has some sort of feelings for another woman who lives in Europe. They met on one of his work trips and they started chatting. At the end of the day after all the work is done he regularly chats with that woman until he falls asleep. She's single and knows he's married and they havent been physical, but they know "there is something". They just chat about trivial things and nothing serious and never acknowledge the feelings involved (although I'd consider it as emotional cheating?). He says a divorce would be too messy and he's also just going with the flow. I guess he doesn't feel enough for her to mess up his current setting with his wife.

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