Unrequited love

[Jasmine5]

I am so confused. I have been with my other half for nearly 13 years, we are married and have a beautiful daughter together. For nearly all of that time, I have been happy and content with my life.
But recently I bumped into an old friend and you could say an old flame. When I was sixteen, I meet someone that instantly touched me in a way no one had before or since, there was a real connection between us, feelings that we both admitted to. Unfortunately at the time I was too scared about being left alone that I didn’t give a relationship with him a go and stayed with my boyfriend instead.
fast forward and that boyfriend is now my husband.
My problem is since seeing my old friend, all the feelings I had have been stirred up and I’m struggling to get rid of them, despite being in love with my husband and knowing that my old friend doesn’t have feelings for me anymore.

any advice would be greatly recieved

[bunnyhabit]

this is something that you have to get over. there nothing positive that can come out of cheating on your husband that you love with a guy that has no feelings for you. just avoid contact with your crush.

i have two ex's that hit on me often but i avoid them as have issues with my husband cheating on me so don't want to go down same path.

[Ella]

The feelings you have for your old friend now is one that a lot of people struggle with. However, if you allow this feelings to take over you, it will destroy your marriage and eventually your life.

I will advice you stop seeing him immediately and cut off contact with him. This way, you will be able to check your feelings.

[Clay]

It's good you know that your old friend doesn't have feelings for you anymore. So, that's enough reason for you to stop having feelings for him. If you do anything with him, you will eventually regret it all your life.

Don't throw away a good marriage for the pleasure of sex with someone that doesn't love you.

[Jasmine5]

Thank you all for the advice.
it may sound stupid but I’m not really sure how to sort out my feelings, I have been with my husband since I was 16 and only had one non serious boyfriend before that. I guess what I’m saying is I’m not sure how to work out the feelings in the best way.
any advice on useful ways would be appreciated