Never had sex with my boyfriend

[Rachmd]

We've been in a relationship for over a year. We live 2 hrs away from each other so generally see each other at the weekends. He's 41 and I'm 33. We've never had sex. We have tried no more than half a dozen times but he always loses his erection. We do oral sex and he likes to finger me. He does get hard from this but never comes. I have suggested viagra but I don't like to bring the topic up much anymore because nothing changes. I do love him but this needs to be resolved.

[Judith]

I have suggested viagra but I don't like to bring the topic up much anymore because nothing changes.

Obviously, he isn't making effort on his part to resolve this issue. I think you need to make it obvious to him that you aren't comfortable with the situation of things. The reason being that he might think you aren't bothered about it unless you make it known to him.

[Anthony]

We have tried no more than half a dozen times but he always loses his erection.

This is a problem he has been experiencing even before meeting you. Now that you are with him, you both need to work together to resolve this issue.

So, I will advice you suggest to him to seek medical support. Probably go see a doctor that is specialized in that field.