Husbands penis size...

[kayhilla]

Okay.. so long story short, when my husband and I were dating I thought his penis was big or at least average bc I had never been with anyone at the time... well after we got married and started having a lot of sex... I became really aware of the fact that my husband couldnt get me off!!! So one night I was just being flirty and I measured it.

It was only 5 1/2 inches?? What should I do about it?? What do y’all think about size. (Preference, if 5 1/2 is too small, etc)

[Pink Flamingo]

Every woman is different. I'm don't consider myself big but I'm not tiny either yet when I'm having sex I can hit my wife's cervix sometime which is painful for her. Over the years I feel she has become looser but I can still see on her face she is "feeling" every thrust I take with pleasure. If this is not your case, research different positions. My wife has YET to come from just penetration and so I go down on her before sex most the time or after. Try using less lube if that's the case - too much lube causes less friction. If you are into toys have him use some large dildos while playing with you. Bring it up in a way where you won't hurt his feelings like "I've always been wondering about introducing toys in our love life". I purchased a penis girth extender which I have yet to use but it's available to use even if only for fun. Years ago I used a rather large dildo on my wife while performing oral and although I thought it was hot she said it wasn't so much for her. I'm not sure if it was the size or the fact she prefer all natural sex most the time. We keep experimenting little by little to keep the excitement up. Good luck.

[bdog]

My penis is 6.5 inches long. I'm 5'11". I think penis size is generally proportional to height. I also think vagina size is proportional to height. I like shorter girls because I think they generally have tighter vaginas and are more pleasurable for me. My ex-wife is 5' 1/2" tall, and it was tiny and tight. However, I would generally stimulate her clitoris with my hand while in her. She wouldn't achieve orgasm any other way that we tried in 18 years.

I was with a girl last night that I met at a coffee shop a few weeks ago. She is 5'6" and has never had kids. She is rather prudish at 28, and hasn't had sex much. She had an orgasm on the second time we did it last night, just from penetration in the missionary position. Last night was the 5th and 6th time we had sex. I think it's always more exciting at the beginning.

My penis has been inside 51 women. I think about 10-15 had orgasms just from intercourse. I had one GF who did klegel exercises and would carry some kind of balls around in her vagina as an exercise. She was in her mid 30s, 5'7" and had two kids. Her vagina was like magic. On the other hand, she never had an orgasm in 6 months and said she had never had one with a man ever.

Another more recent GF had multiple Os in each event. She also flexes the muscles in her vagina to hug my penis (amazing). I am wondering if you could try some exercises and/or techniques like that. Maybe it will tighten your vagina and increase pleasure for both.

[bunnyhabit]

5 1/2 inches is average for caucasian guys, asian guys are smaller and african guys are larger. penis size has nothing to do with height as is ethnicity that results in average size. i have been with short guys with very long penis (10") and tall guys with short ones (3")

hard to believe you didn't notice you were not orgasming until you were married. you should have been aware the first time you had sex. this is why i always suggest people date many people before settling down with one person.

only choice you have now is divorce and finding someone that meets your needs. some women never orgasm so consult your gynecologist before you do much of anything.

[ArtDecade]

Hi kayhilla,

I understand your worries, but 5 1/5 is around avarage size. You would be surprised to hear how many woman an’t get an orgasm through vaginal penetration. There’s a lot of methoths and ways you can experience an orgasm. Have you and your partner tried oral sex? How much of a foreplay do you guys do? If foreplay is done right, you would be almost %100 ready for an orgasm. You should try new things with your partner, explore each other and comunicate wjat feels good, or how he can improve his movements in order to make you feel right. And again, penis size doesn’t matter if you guys figure what works the best for you.