Hey!

[Hllwnmisfit]

Hey hows it going just Registered. So im about to turn 30, ive never dated, not realy ashamed of it, grew up over weight... So im honestly here to learn more about what makes a relationship, what defines love, and how open a person can be, well what i mean is i guess im just confused, I just ended a 15 year freindship and am pretty clueless with what happened it seems that ive Been clueless of his insecurities or maybe they developed in him as he saw me going to college i just decided that if this is the case it was probably hurting him because as soon as he got a girlfreind he started acting different kinda screwed up, asking me for help yet When i needed help his excuse was always that he was hanging out with his girlfreind. Anyways i care about the dude and it just sucked seeing him this way. Sorry if a shoulda posted this else where...

[bunnyhabit]

girls want handsome fit men wit good aggressive personality and plentiful with cash around them

[Hllwnmisfit]

Not my type of girl, prefer some empathy and compassion. Would rather live the rest of my life alone than be with someone that doesnt care about me.

[Sandra]

Just because you are fat doesn't mean you can't find love. Finding the man of your dreams has nothing to do with being fat or skinny. It's all about personality, so stop feeling bad about yourself if you aren't like the other skinny girls.

Today's society has taught a lot of girls that being fat is a bad thing; it's not. This is the negative effect media has on a lot of women, especially the young ones. Advertisements showing skinny models have given a lot of girls the impression that thin is beautiful and fat is ugly.

You have to rid yourself of this type of mentality. Although it's important that you maintain a healthy weight, it doesn't mean you have to be really thin. You can be fat and healthy. A fat woman isn't necessarily obese, which is unhealthy. And fat women are not ugly. Remember that.

You can get a guy even if you're curvaceous. As a matter of fact, there are many men who prefer women with the curves; they find them sexy. It's because for them, fat women are a lot nicer to hug, touch, and cuddle.

Are you aware that fat women are more preferred by men during the old days? During those times, fat women are more desirable because men like their women to have curvaceous bodies. Another reason bigger women are more liked during these times is because they are seen as more fit to bear children, and bearing a child, especially a boy, is very important to men of old days.

So don't feel bad about your body. You are sexy and beautiful. You can make him want you even if you're fat. All you need to do is follow these 5 tips:

• Always have a pleasant personality

It doesn't matter if you have a pretty face and a thin body if you're personality sucks. You will only bore men. Most fat women I know have really good personalities. They're fun to be with. A positive personality attracts men. Guys gravitate toward them because they enjoy these ladies' company. Always have a smile on your face and be positive about life.

• Be comfortable in your body

Sadly, there are still lots of fat women who don't like their physical makeup. You have to accept and be comfortable in your body. This is the first step in being happy and finding love. Don't be resentful of the body you have. It's what's given you so take pride in it. Be confident.

• Choose the right clothes

To be attractive, you need to be easy on the eyes. Choose clothes that compliment your body type. Don't wear stuff that would highlight the bulge on your tummy. There are clothes made specifically for rounder people. Ask the help of friends in finding the right clothes.

• Walk with confidence

You don't have to be embarrassed to talk to a guy just because you're fat. You shouldn't let that get in the way of meeting new people. Be confident. Don't think about the bad things said to you before. If you like someone, go over and strike up a conversation. Wow him with your personality and I'm sure you will not only impress him but also make him want you.

• Strive to be healthy

Remember, fat doesn't necessarily mean unhealthy. You can be fat and healthy. Try to squeeze some exercise to your routine and eat healthy. Hit the gym once in a while. This is actually one good way to get a boyfriend. Who knows, you may meet the man of your dreams there.

[Hllwnmisfit]

Thats very sweet of You to say, although im a guy, no big deal i always felt that id like to lose weight for the sake of my health. Im not to worried about finding someone i just feel that people are a little too picky or judgmental it started to feel insensitive or uncompassionate so i lose interest, sometímes i feel like a girl in the sense that im turned off by certain people while most men dont care they just wanna get laid...im interested in that old fashion thing.