My Husband Says He Doesn't Love Me Anymore

[Judith]

Please help I am so tired of hurting crying wondering why. I have been with my man for 15 years we have kids and bought a home together been in our home for 10 years. then a couple months ago he tells me he is tired of shit and don't love me anymore and when I try to talk to him about it he gets so mad and says leave me the fuck alone nothing you say matters we are not getting back together. I love him so much we still live together I stay in one room all day everyday when I am here he stays in another but he will bring home something for me to eat or drink or a movie to watch (myself) he will talk to me as long as I don't bring up anything to do with us. he is letting our house go the one we raised our kids in I'm lost crushed devastated I don't understand please help me !!!

[Kate]

I think that trying to fix his way of thinking is onl gonna cause resistance towards you within him. Don't respect this behaviour, you're worth so much more than this. Maybe tell him to leave the household for a short amount of time, so you can wrap our head around everything and decide for yourself whether the way things are going right now is how you wanna live the rest of your life, as well as giving him time to realise that it's not okay for him to treat you this way, and for him to start missing you again. He's taking you for granted right now. Don't let him. Hope this helped, I wish you all the best

[Jerome]

Maybe you should start moving on, going out, ignoring him like he does to you. Most people don't know what they got, until they lose it.

[Vivian]

It happened to me after 32 years, he took my whole young life don't let it happen to you I'm going to tell you a hard Truth your man probably has another woman I'm sorry

[Terry]

If this happened suddenly then I would suggest that he has his brain checked up. It's not normal to throw everything away out of the blue. And a change in behavior like that could indicate that something is not right.

[Judith]

I think that trying to fix his way of thinking is onl gonna cause resistance towards you within him. Don't respect this behaviour, you're worth so much more than this. Maybe tell him to leave the household for a short amount of time, so you can wrap our head around everything and decide for yourself whether the way things are going right now is how you wanna live the rest of your life, as well as giving him time to realise that it's not okay for him to treat you this way, and for him to start missing you again. He's taking you for granted right now. Don't let him. Hope this helped, I wish you all the best

thanks so much helped alot

[Judith]

Maybe you should start moving on, going out, ignoring him like he does to you. Most people don't know what they got, until they lose it.

very true it just all scares me

[Judith]

If this happened suddenly then I would suggest that he has his brain checked up. It's not normal to throw everything away out of the blue. And a change in behavior like that could indicate that something is not right.

yes this is what i have been saying he isolates his self does nothing bit drink and play video games and is mean with everyone

[Terry]

yes this is what i have been saying he isolates his self does nothing bit drink and play video games and is mean with everyone

Then you need to get him to a doctor.

[Judith]

Then you need to get him to a doctor.

I have tried he wont go he says its everyone else or me