I don't know what's happening..

[Max]

Hello there.. I am a guy, 20 and student ..I have or had a girlfriend (I don't really know what's going on) .
We've been in a relationship for more then a year now and it was sweet and we have been physically intimate, Both have temper issue but she controls her anger well and controls my shenanigans but I've been acting like a Immature guy lately.. She left university toto train for Cabin Crew service and long story short she had to leave the city sndand settle somewhere else ..She is extremely close with her mother and I talk with her mother every now and then. They are fond of me but she is having anger issues lately. One day we had a long argument and she eventually blocks me everywhere ..Her mom called aftr a week and tells that she(gf ) misses me a lot ..Tries to connect with her via mail and she reads them (her mom says so ) but haven't got a reply .After a month Her training becomes even more tiresome and hectic and no time for her to interact with anyone else. One day we had a conversation and it was okish but nothing after that .Her mom says she talks about me indirectly but I am still blocked everywhere. I talk with her mom every now and then but even she's confused. .Don't know if she misses me or not. .Occasionally talks about me with her mom, says she thinks about me and I can't conclude anything ..If she actually misses me why ain't she contacting me ...It's been 3 months now. I was her first love and she talks about having a future with me with her family but these 3 months she's been acting really cold ..I miss her terribly and I don't even know she's interested anymore ...Some days ago her mom conveys that she(gf) demands an apology for hurting her and ya I admit I've hurt her too much ,insulted her publicly and but she still forgave me for she considered me immature . .It's been 3 month now and I don't know our relationship status .I've admit my mistake millions of time ..And apologized via email but she wants me to come there and apologize ..Should I go ? Do I still have a chance? Please help me ..

[JohnSmith]

Hi Max,

I really believe you should go and try. You have nothing to lose and if you go it might tell her that you really care about her and that you are really sorry for the things you've done. Bring her some nice flowers and try to talk to her openly. I'm 33 and I missed many chances like that, so don't lose yours. Even if she won't forgive you, you will be able to move on and you would know that you did everything you could to keep her.

I still don't know what would have happened if I decided to go back in the day. Just go and either way you will have a better undestanding of the situation.

I really hope it works out the best for you and her.

Good luck!

[Peggy]

If you truly love her, then you should go and apologize to her in person. Since an apology is all she wants, it implies you still have a chance with her. So, go and apologize to her as soon as possible before it's too late.