Need advice

[Jadesamson]

Hi Everyone, I like this boy called Kendyll or Kenny for short who I known since 2014 or 15 which was college times, I tried asking him out on Saturday 8th December but he said no! (I know people can't say yes all the time) but I miss being his girlfriend and he misses me but he didn’t say in what way so yeah, I don’t know what to do. Do I give him space or whatever? I want to be with him I loved him since I put my eyes on him!!

[Vivian]

He deliberately turned down your request when you asked him out. So, it's best to give him space and avoid contacting him.

[Dennis]

My candid advice to you is to always allow guys chase you and not you chasing them. This is because a guy only values what he works hard to get and not what he got without stress. So, give him space and allow him chase you.

[bunnyhabit]

it is counter-productive for a female to chase a guy. guys typically expect to be the chasers not the chased. you will send out the wrong impression chasing men. just flirt and send attractive pics of yourself to test his romantic interests in you. guys expect good girls to play hard to get not over eager to submit to their charm and pursuit.

[KB Love Doctor]

In many of times women wonder whether they should chase the guy. From what I’ve seen in most cases that ends up with the guy taking advantage. The key is to find the sweet spot in between letting him know you’re there and the positives thereof, and showing him that it doesn’t mean you have to be there. Men typically want what we can’t have so it is important to play your cards right.

[priyanka83]

I think he might be not in a stage to accept your proposal, give him some space so that he can think. If he really has any feeling for you then he is definitely going to fall. Just my suggestion is that believe yourself, stay strong wait for the right time. Love is magic

[1001WaysAgain]

Regarding "women shouldn't chase men":
(1) That quite a broad generalization! Guys are individuals, too. Some love to be pursued, some don't. Love is about people as INDIVIDUALS, not as stereotypes.
(2) Depends on what you mean by "chase." Desperate chasing will turn-off most guys. But there are, at last count, 50 Subtle Ways to Chase a Lover. [With thanks to Paul Simon.]

I'm just sayin'.