Event with an ex

[Jenarmen]

I broke the no contact rule with my ex by begging him to which of course he said no and in an week I was invited to a party to my former work place (he still works there).Should i go to this event knowing he will be there especially after i made a fool out of myself by begging him to get back together?
I don’t want him to think I am going there only to see him and that this is a way of stalking him or making him take me back but also I want to enjoy seeing my old colleagues with which I stayed in contact after I left my workplace.

[David]

If you know that you'll be comfortable attending the event and completely ignoring him, then attend the event. What's more important is that while at the event, act as though he doesn't exist.

[Nora]

You ex shouldn't deprive you from attending a social gathering. However, make sure you ignore him while at the event. Also, ensure you don't stare at him or look in his direction while at the party.

[bunnyhabit]

if you go unaccompanied by a guy and focus on him that would be the normal reaction by him and other colleagues. to avoid this either bring a date or focus on another male colleague to dispell this assumption. additionally will benefit you if he has any future interests in rekindling you.