What to do

[Lousie1313]

Hi I'm new to this so hi
I've been with my partner for 2.5 years and I'm super paranoid, I get anxiety and low self-esteem. I know I shouldn't of but I looked on his phone to see he had messaged an ex. He said how he needed sex, liked her boobs and she sent them. That was the only messages i Seen before going mental. He says it was only that time he had done it. Cried and said how bad he feels.
I feel like he's cheated on me, although not physically. I just don't know where to go from here. Has anyone experienced this and how do you get trough it.
i said why did you do it and he said because when I want sex he doesn't and vice versa.

[smackie9]

Well there it is right there...open dialog needed to discuss the issue about sex in your relationship.

[Damian]

Communication is the key to a successful relationship, and your relationship currently lack good communication. You and your boyfriend need to be able to communicate about what you both want in the relationship. So, learn to communicate about what you want and especially sex to you boyfriend, and your boyfriend should be able to do the same.

[Tina]

If you believe he was remorseful about his action, then you might want to give him second chance. Otherwise, you might want to consider your still been with him.