One sided love with roommate?

[Exondra]

So...I met my new roommate about half a year ago now. One of the agreements we had was no dating because we wanted to avoid any drama. I made the deal thinking "easy". Boy, was I wrong.
So we are both gamers, we hang out a lot. Watch movies, go out to festivals. Go out to lunch. He loves my cats and spoils them as much as I do. We share the meals we cook. We can sit on the couch and he starts tickling me. We never kissed or had sex or anything like that. But I'm head over heels. Then someone told me he probabaly just liked the attention he was getting and it's why nothings going on. Well...I got on a dating app. Dated a couple guys I couldn't get my roommate out of my head. I even told him when when I was leaving. He asked where I was going and I even said to get coffee with a guy and he just said "oh". Also I'm from across the country and mentioned possibly moving back home and asked what he would say if I did and he's just like "that's sudden" so now I'm thinking it's just a friend thing but I can't get him out of my head and the more we hang out the more I like him. I feel very conflicted. I don't want to sound obsessive but when I falling always fall hard and can't focus on other guys to try and get over him.

[Vivian]

I can assure you that he feels the same way you feel, but he's concealing his feelings. He's simply hiding his feelings because he doen't want to breach the agreement you both had before you moved in together.

So, I think you should break the ice and start to show him you like him. The best way to do that is by making him jealous, however, don't overdo this but make it subtle.

[Drake]

A guy may be crazy about you but he tries to hide it making you feel confused. It is possible that the signs are already there but he is not yet ready to come forward and confess his feelings. Sometimes a woman may get confused if a guy is into her or not especially if he hasn't mention the three magic words yet. The signs that a man is into you may be right in front of you but you often fail to recognize it. Knowing what he's thinking and how he feels about you without asking him could erase all the confusion. Although every man is different, there are common signs he is romantically interested in you. So what are the tell-tale signs that a guy is interested in you?

Uncontrollable physical response in your presence. Some men get anxious in the presence of the person they have intense feelings with. Some of the physical manifestations when one is really conscious in the presence of the person they have strong feelings with are stammering, blushing and dilated pupils. If he normally do not have these physical response to other people but they suddenly appear in your presence, then it is clear that he has strong feelings for you. Those uncontrollable physical response are signs he is romantically interested in you.

He stares at you a lot. One of the signs that a man is into you can be seen in his eyes. His eyes can give him away. You often caught him looking at you while you are doing something or when he thinks you are too busy to notice him gazing at you. He immediately look away or do something if you caught him staring at you. The eyes cannot lie and one of the signs he is romantically interested in you can be seen in his eyes.

He constantly inquire about you. You will soon find out that he asks people a lot about you including your friends, neighbors and people who are very close to you. For instance, if you are a church choir member, he would make an effort to know some people in your church to inquire about you. He knows important details about you. He knows your birthday and he even go beyond by finding out special events in your family like anniversaries etc. He reads all the stuffs you posted on Facebook and likes them even those you think most people will ignore but he never misses to like them. If he makes an effort to know more about you, it is one of the signs he is romantically interested in you.

You receive unexpected calls or text messages from him. He send text messages unexpectedly just to say "Hi" that you even wonder why he's texting you. The next time you know he's saying that he is out with his friends but it makes you wonder why he's texting you even if he is out with his friends. This only shows that you are in his mind even if he is in the company of his friends.

He takes your compliments and suggestions to heart. If you happen to compliment his new haircut, he'll consider to have that hairstyle as long as it pleases you. Even if you unconsciously say something about his weight gain, he will secretly head to the gym and try to shed those excess pounds. If you suggest that a certain color looks good on him, he will wear that particular color more than any other color. If your compliments and suggestions have that kind of effect on him, those are signs he is romantically interested in you.

He offers a helping hand. If you are preoccupied with a lot of things at school or at work, he often offer help for you to accomplish things on time. He doesn't mind doing things that are usually considered "women things" just to help you. You will notice that he enjoys doing things with you even if it caused him to lose some sleep.

Some men need the proper timing to come forward and confess their feelings but if you know how to recognize the signs he is romantically interested in you, you will not get confused and you know where to stand.

[Exondra]

You can't guarantee he likes me. And I've brought up relationships a lot. And I'm very sure I'm waisting my time as of tonight. As for the long "physical" stuff. I've seen all that online already and wouldn't need to post here if I saw any of those signs. It was a waste of time. I just need to move out so I can get over him. Because he wont make a move and I've already been pretty obvious about it. And I heard once that unrequited love is not a thing because it should be a major turn off. I shall take the highroad this go around.