Decoding a guys intentions....

[Starbright]

Im still trying to decode a guys intentions and feel like my head is going to explode!

What does it generally mean when a guy tries to show he has things in common with you? Hes pointed out that i share similar personality qualities. He always seems to try to relate by saying he has the same thing or likes the same things.

What about always touching my upper arm? The first time i thought it was to calm my anxiety but the second time it happened while helping a male co worker, he touched my upper arm while saying why are you stressing even though i wasnt stressing. I got the impression he was trying to make an excuse for touching me where it worked the first time.

He softens his voice and tends to give long eye contact but other times its like he makes it obvious he doesnt want to touch me when squeezing past me... but perhaps it's because it's work and people were around.

this guy also complimented me by saying i looked nice the other day...

the thing is... we dont talk outside of work but he will do whatever he can to initiate conversation and i catch him looking at me all the time.

At work we had awards given out and he handed all the awards out to the managers to help hand out but kept mine so he could be the one to give it to me... of course he alsi asked for a hug but in a non creepy way...

he tends to speak to me in a sweet soft voice... im also one of his favourites according to what he has said but then said im an excellent employee...


Help a girl out... what is going through this dudes mind....

[Jane]

These three little-known tips will help you tell whether or not he really feels it for you.

Tip #1: Believe Him The First Time.

Whenever he talks about himself during your first date, believe him. It's that simple! Most of us make the mistake of thinking: "Oh, I wonder what he means by THAT?" or "What's he implying?"

When you believe him the first time around, it makes it easier to decode his real intentions. And don't worry if he's lying -- as you go on more dates, you'll see just how consistent he is with the things he tells you.

The more consistent he is, the more likely he's interested in a romantic relationship with you!

Tip #2: Pay Attention To His Actions.

In the dating game, actions speak louder than words. If he tells you he's a playboy, but he's a stuttering, fidgeting mess around you, then he's probably lying. And likewise, if he tells you he's a one-woman man, but flirts with you like a pro, it's a good idea to protect yourself with a few doubts.

Paying attention to his actions will also clue you in on what he really wants in your relationship. If he shows a lot of affection, then he might really care for you. But if he acts in a confusing way -- flirting with you one moment and playing hard-to-get in the next -- he may just be looking for some quick cheap fun.

Tip #3: Ask Him About His Friends And Family.

Your goal isn't just to know his friends and family, but to get to meet them one day. If he's serious about you, he won't have any qualms introducing you to his friends and family. But if he only sees you as a quick date, he's not going to make that investment!

What's more, if he hesitates to introduce you to his loved ones, it could be because he's hiding something. He could, for instance, actually be taken. So stay safe!

[Anthony]

If you can read a man's mind and figure out what his intentions are, then you are automatically at peace. It will give you a great advantage and you will be able satisfy him on all counts and be satisfied in return. These tips will help you to get inside a man's mind and know his true feelings and intentions.

Get him to talk while you listen
It is no use talking all the time and trying to make him listen. Pleading and begging him to let you know what he really feels about you will only make him more stubborn and reluctant to let you know his innermost feelings and desires. Be patient and let him to all the talking. Slowly but surely he will let his feelings and intentions be known.

Watch him closely and pick up signals
Sometimes all you have to do is to watch your guy closely and learn to pick up signals. He may not even know it - but he is unconsciously sending you these signals which you have to be quick to intercept and decode. By his behavior you will know whether he is taking you for a ride or whether he truly cares for you.

Read between the lines
Learn to read between the lines and understand what he is trying to tell you. Even though what he says may be one thing, it is easy to pick up facts and the truth by looking into his eyes and hearing what he is not saying aloud. A small smile, a wink and gesture will speak volumes.

Be one step ahead
You don't have to be a psychiatrist and pick his brain to know what he is telling you. Just watch his behavior when he is with you and learn to anticipate his wishes and desires. All you have to do is give him what he wants even before he asks for it. This will make him reveal more of his feelings and intentions.

Question him artfully
There is a way to get information from him without being too direct and transparent. Ask him what you want to know in a manner that will put him at ease and rest. He will think nothing of letting you know about his thoughts and feelings, intentions and plans if he learns to relax with you.

Make him crazy about you and he will become transparent
The easiest way to make him do what you want is to make him fall deeply and madly in love with you. He will want to satisfy your every whim and fancy and to do this he will be more than ready to spill the beans. Once you become indispensable to him - he will want to keep you at any cost.

Don't ignore the obvious
Sometimes, the truth is staring at you in the face, but you can be in denial. Don't be blind to what is happening around you. If the signs are pretty obvious for you to see - read them. Don't pretend that you can't read the signs - be quick to intercept vibes and look for the obvious.