My fiance is older than my mom

[lizgirl69]

Hi, I am Lisa from the Philippines. My fiance John will visit me here next month. I will also introduce him to my mom who is younger than him. I know this will be an awkward moment but my mom should be proud of me. John loves me so much and I can’t wait to be married to him. I hope my mom will be happy for me. This is what I want, to be married to someone I definitely love.
I don’t care if he’s older than me. Age doesn’t matter anyway, right?


I met John at a romance tour in Cebu last year. We’ve been dating for a year. We love each other and that is true. Even if we’re miles apart, we still communicate and tries our best to reach out always. But the problem is in my mom’s. My mom wants me to marry someone my age. But knowing John, my mom might get disappointed. What should I do? What should my explanations be?
I hope my mom will understand. It’s my choice anyway. But please do help me!

[Kate]

I don’t care if he’s older than me. Age doesn’t matter anyway, right?

You are right about that, age really doesn't matter. What matters is love!

[lizgirl69]

Yes Kate! And thank you for your advice and its appreciated..

[Malvin]

I think you should begin by letting your mom know about him, and let your mom talk to him over the phone. This will help your mom to start liking him, so that when he eventually come to Philippine you mom won't be amazed.

[lizgirl69]

Thank you so much Malvin for your great advice.. Hopefully, my mom understands me and will accept my fiance with an open heart))!