I never thought I would fall for someone this hard

[Jiwi]

if anyone can answer this for me, I would greatly appreciate it. I never thought in a million years I would feel so heartbroken over a guy. I can’t get him off my mind and I want to reach out and tell him I love him but I can’t sum the courage to do so. We were together for 3 years we first start dating long distance and after a year I decided to move up to him we were great together never met any one that I could just get lost in there eyes we did have our ups and downs but he was always there but I do blame me being the way I am and sometime shutting him out and i do blame him for always getting so mad over things and then we had the biggest fight which lead me to move back home we tried .. well I think I tried to make things work and he dumped me this last May.. till this day I try to mask my hurt but I can’t get him off my mind I went to busy friends up where he lives and went to see him after and it was the best it seem like nothing changed I was with him and his family bug when I came back home he never texted me or call me and it broke me even more.. now in this present time I look into my stories that I place on social media and his new girlfriend view he moved on so quickly and through the day she kept viewing my stories just don’t know why she did that but then again I do .. I have never felt this way about anyone just typing this is making me tear up. What should I do ? Do I forget ? Do I try to reach out ? I feel bad just thinking about tell him how I feel even tho he has a new girlfriend but just don’t know what else to do.

[Brett]

I think this relationship has ended for good and nothing can be done at this point. The reason being that he never called or text you after going to see him and his family. This shows that he doesn't care about you anymore. So, I'll advice you move on with grace. You'll find another man soon that will love and cherish you.

[Sandra]

It's never too late to attempt to get your ex back even if that means stealing him from a new girl. It is your legitimate right and you don't have to feel like you are doing something devious after all you have the first right of refusal over him and you are just exercising that. Here is how you can achieve your objective.

Get back on talking terms first
Even before you do anything you will first have to reestablish the lines of communications with your ex. Tell him that you have learnt that he has moved on and this calls for a celebration and ask him to give you and your friends a small treat. He will be surprised at your offer and will gladly agree to meet you.

Build the trust quotient
Post the treat keep in touch with him on an intermittent basis and rebuild the trust he has lost. This will take some time and you have to be careful that you don't bitch about him or his new flame to your other common friends.

Get close to the couple
To earn the trust and friendship of his new girlfriend ask to meet them both. Make sure you have a man on your arm and show that you too are beginning to move on. This act will calm his new girlfriend's nerves and she will not feel threatened.

Mind your language
During the meeting make sure that you don't come across as though you know all about your ex. Show that you are genuinely happy that the two of them are together and express your happiness in as many words.

Wait for an opportune moment
This is the most difficult part in this entire process. You will have wait out this period. Sooner rather than later there will be some sort of friction between your ex and his new girlfriend. And if you have become their confidante then you will be called to adjudicate the dispute. In case nothing of that sort happens then you can create a small misunderstanding between the two of them.

Subtly back your ex
If you are asked your opinion suggest that they take the help of a relationship expert. However, on the sly back your boyfriend. This will make you appear as the good girl. However, don't add fuel to the fire by openly siding with your ex.

Present yourself in a very sexy avatar
Once your ex knows that he has your backing he will begin to share a lot of his problems with you. Whenever you are going to meet him alone make sure that you are dressed in your sexiest outfits. On the pretext of consoling him get closer to him and begin seducing him all over again.

As the disagreements between your ex and his new girlfriend increase in frequency he will begin to count on you more and more and before he realizes it he will have fallen in love with an understanding girl like you.