Is He Going To Come Back and Tell When and What Should I Do To Get Him Back

[Judith]

I was In a relationship since 4 yrs I mean my 4 yr anniversary is on 24th Nov I broke up with my ex on 13th Nov just because he had told me not to tok to guys n he caught me doing that I wasn't cheating on him n he knows that but still he broke up with me because this is d 3rd time I hv done d same mistake n he doesn't want me to tok to guys nyhow. and since 3 days after breakup I was apologizing him alot begging him but he knows IL do dis till end so he has alot of ego in him den he tld me about his ex I got angry n I said get lost n blocked him so I dint contact him since 2 days now and Der was none such day in 4 yrs even after breakup dat we never spoke dis is the first time n nw he knows that I don't care anymore somewhat but on instagram he puts his user name like one not for u den I had put I don't giva damn den he put will get to know den I put waiting to knw den he got angry so much that he puts hate you n sm shitty status n posts a pic saying m nt blocking u so u r able to see how happy I am without you after dat I posted like one of the best feelings is losing feelings n attachment for d person who wasn't gud for u! I am not understanding wats going on in his mind can u please help me I want him back but everytime I chase him he takes me for granted dis time I want him to cm back to me in his own inspite of my fault. do this situation look like hes gonna cm back bfr my 4 yr anniversary or on my anniversary there r 6 days left fr my anniversary n dis relationship was a very serious one dats y he is so.possessive about me bt hes short tempered n have alot of ego can u please help me to get him back on his own and he knows he will never get someone like me ever in his life he abuses me in anger and I listen to him everytime he knows all this, that's why shows me.ego n knows I wil cm because no matter what because I love him like hell to death.. plz tel me is he gonna cm back n tell when n what should I do to get him back n I want him back on anniversary or bfr dat u think hel cm because to me till anniversary plz help

[Paul]

And i think he had the same problem?

[Barry]

What's with these guys and why doesn't your ex want you anything to do with them? If his reason is just because he says so, then you may be dealing with someone who's a bit controlling here. Use your anniversary to really let your ex miss you, though, especially if you two have been used to celebrating with each other each year, that ought to bring up some memories when time comes. So employ the "no contact" rule first, all right?