Not finding her Attractive due to her Hair loss

[187113ht]

So I am in a serious relationship with this girl for 3 years. We met at the University and hit it off from there. She's really a down to earth wonderful genuine person. She's never been with anyone before. I am 24 and she's 22 years old and we both live separately with our parents.
Just recently I started noticing her scalp is more bare and its like that every time I see her. I know she's losing quite a bit of hair over the time of our relationship. She has visited the dermatologist and it doesn't look like what he recommended is helping. Just as I thought our relationship was going well I start to find her less and less attractive. I'm torn away right now not really sure what to do. One part of me really wants to be with this girl cause she's amazing but other side of me wants to break up and move on. At the same time I don't want to breakup with her because of the guilt. I took her virginity and I know she will be shattered if I leave her and I dont really want to break her heart. Also she put alot of effort to be with me and loving me unconditionally. We have talked about our future together and about getting engaged in the future. And because this I have this guilt trip that hangs over me.
At this point I don't understand what I to do. I know people get cold feet during their relationships. I know it seems shallow but a woman's hair is really important to me. I have caught myself looking at other girls and admiring their beauty in my head or sometimes imagining to be with them.

[Zinok]

So, is there other issues at play here, or you are thinking of leaving your serious girlfriend of three years simply because she is losing her hair?
Because if it's legitimately just the hair loss, and you're willing to throw away an otherwise happy relationship instead of being supportive to her, then honestly she's better off without you. Because that's pretty shitty. If you think you're struggling with her losing her hair, how do you think she's feeling? Her confidence is already taking a hit, so if you leave her because you no longer find her attractive due to medical issue of losing her hair, with NO other reason to want to split up... that's going to devastate her confidence.
If you do decide to leave her, be a decent human being and don't tell her it's because of her hair. Hide your shallow doucheyness for her sake.

[Sofia]

If she is a good girl, breaking up with her because of her hair lost is too mere. There are a lot of things you can do make her regain her hair if that's what bothers you. Most times, natural methods to regrow hair works amazing well unlike the recommendations from dermatologist. Simply do a search on google for some natural ways to grow hair.

[John]

Let me tell you the truth, you will regret breaking up with her. There are lots of girls, but finding one to truly love you is difficult. Also, you aren't going to find someone that is perfect. If you leave her to date someone else that has hair, that other girl will be deficient in another area.

So, you can't really find a perfect person, just the same way you aren't perfect. I will advice you stick with your present girlfriend.