A Girl in my class

[andabhurji]

Hello everyone ,first post here

I'm 18 ,focused on studying and hardcore gaming and chilling ,always thought girls and stuff are not for me ,I'm above these things and it's just time waste .
So new college started last month ,really missing my old friends and not many people worth befriending in my class.

Started liking a girl ,for the first time ever in my life ,who sits too far from me because of serial number difference.

And I never got the chance to talk to her because-
1. I am anxious
2. She lives in the hostel ,I live nearby in my home and I drive a car to college.
3.I am anxious
4. She sits too far away
5.I am anxious

I am introverted with a i-dont-care attitude which helped me to overcome my self-esteem and low-confidence issues .
I try to sit as close to her but with little luck.

How can I talk to her ? How can I approach her ?
During lunch break ,she quickly goes to the Hostel Mess
During classes she doesn't sit that close .
During free classes ,she sits with her friends so it feels weird to go randomly talk in front of her friends (and my firends and the rest of class too)
I don't want to look desperate or creepy .

I have never felt anything like this in my life even though I grew up in a modern society and school .

[Scot]

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[Bradwin]

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