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hi everyone.
as title says am going through a few things and need someone to talk to and anyone who will listen.
1. how to get the hospital like care without anything medical or at least not major:
was wondering how to get the hospital like care and comfort where someone checks on you or looks after you like youre in hospital or recovering from something or both, what am looking for is to be cared for or the comfort like you are in hospital, dont want to wait until something happens to get it and dont want to go through anything medical or at least not anything major.
is there a way to get it or is letting something get worse the only way, where can you go to get that comfort and care.
2. experience being pushed in wheelchair even if you take turns pushing each other:
was wondering how you would be able to experience someone pushing you in wheelchair even for fun even if taking turns pushing each other.
quite a few years ago as a kid have got to experience being pushed in wheelchair or use one for fun and wish to re create that, is there anywhere in the kadina, wallaroo, moonta area where you can find someone to give that experience as am not in a position to travel to adelaide in own car at moment, driving is not the issue, its because cars not currently ready and upto the trip but isnt bad for driving in the immediate area.
is there a way to ask someone in the copper coast are to give the experience or is it time for the tough chat with a family member.
is there a minor medical reason you might be able to get wheeled to your car from a doctors or a hospital in copper coast even if you can drive away from premises after and how would you be able to ask to be wheeled to car.
would doctors clinic or hospitals have one, would the wallaroo (sa) hospital have a section that does vaccinations.
3. resting in reclined position:
was wondering how you would go about being able to recline in rested position and have family or a friend sit with you for a bit.
am wanting to have the comfort and care you would get if youre hurt or sick but without waiting to need to go to the hospital or anything major medical and have someone sit with you and care for you like when youre recovering from something but without going that extreme if not needed.
is there a way to make it happen without having to present to emergency if not needed even though youre nowhere near breaking point or can you just present there and just wait until someone is free if theyre busy which is same as calling ambulance for non urgent and just wait until they can come.
is there also a way without going ndis if you dont want it or without taking own car out the immediate local area until its restored (it is not bad for immediate area, just not long distance or take certain people currently)
how would you get to rest in a reclined position and have someone give the comfort and care like when recovering from something.
there was someone with a illness who rested in a recliner with blanket and family were there and would like the same and dont know how to go about it, sisters moved away and her coming for couple days or someone taking you there is the only way because of cars current condition and your choice to keep it and gradually fix it up.
also where do you go that has warm heater and a recliner when your place doesn't have a second lounge room or you dont have own space with lounge room and kitchen.
4. meaningful conversations:
wondering how you would be able to find friends and a friend to have meaningful conversations with.
what am wanting is a girl and a friend to have meaningful conversations with about things and am feeling behind.
have worked in hospitality which means worked weekends for 15 years until 2024 when leaving due to sale of business and only had a year to rebuild social side and its not long enough or hasnt been long enough to rebuild.
where as others my age have probably had more time to build their social life because of not working weekends for as long as me and most have probably moved on by age 25 onto different careers thats closer to monday-friday no weekends/evenings/holidays, where as myself have stayed too long in my old job and some days am wishing that had left old job post lockdown like all the other middle aged and older workers did and not stay as long as have stayed.
what is a short term solution while continuing to work on a better solution
also how and what could you do to organize a birthday for someone when you dont have many siblings and friends and without becoming a events manager as am not willing to work in hospitality again as done my time in hospitality and it wont be happening again.
also how do you ask for one on one time with your sister for a big birthday when you dont have a female friend or a friend to hang out with.
what could be done for now.
5. hair model:
came across a tiktok video of a girl whos lost her mother and her brother styled her hair for her to cheer her up.
what has happened is that it upset me because of missing out and am really wanting to re create that experience with sister or girl my age, the video reminded me of how much am wanting meaningful moments with a girl my age.
this year is 20 years since my mothers been gone and that same year was my year 12 formal and took a cousin and it also reminded me,
how do you find someone willing, plan to ask sister if shes willing or can reccomend someone.
feel left out and am missing out on these meaningful moments
6. finding someone:
was wondering how you can find another girl to dress up a little with because have got no one.
the only one that can think of is the adelaide sister even though its harder now shes moved away even though its not impossible.
the only other thing that can think of is maybe offer for a second cousin, but own car isnt up to travelling the distance at moment.
a couple of months ago the ex bosses neice had a school formal in kadina and had no invitaion and the old tv antenna installers they also know were there for some of it and felt left out, especially because there is no one else thats doing a milestone anytime soon and you dont have anyone else.
am looking for female connections to dress up with and companionships and special moments, and younger women to guide.
also got a younger sister whos trans gender and parents support it so the option of her is out and have no one else.
if had known how bad things were back when the formal was happening would have asked the ex bosses sister if itd be ok to go watch it potentially leading to photos explaining what things are really like, same goes with the school that volunteer at even to help in any way but didnt know how bad things were.
how would you start off with a anom fb post asking if theres single people in kadina wallaroo moonta area that are 20-40 and also where people that age go to hang out in that area.
what else can you do to dress up a little with women and watch a milestone with some.
travelling adelaide in own car is still not a option yet.
please help am feeling left out
7. roleplay:
wondering where and how you can find friends and people your age (25-40) particularly women where you can pair up and take turns playing patient and paramedic and bandaging each other and using crutches.
years ago have sort of played paramedic and patient with a cousin when younger when she stayed at a uncles and we lived there while waiting for house to be built.
also only a year after that have seen kids at school pretending to be hurt.
want to re create that and make it regular.
has anyone got ideas on how to best go about it and finding space other than home which isn’t a option as it’s a little desperate
8. courtesy:
How come some places especially some fast food don’t have as many tables as they used to, bakeries and restaurants and cafes are no problem still
How come hungry jacks and otr in kadina was build poorly with mainly upstairs dining and toilets and not enough ground level dining and toilets for people who can’t or don’t feel like going upstairs but they seem to have to force themselves to, mcdonalds are no major problem
Shouldn’t have to adjust time because of certain people and crowds Kids take over libraries after school and shouldn’t have to adjust because of them and it wasn’t as bad 15-20 years ago
How come younger generations of planners and leaders aren’t as courteous in planning
How come city people especially younger ones leave tables at hospitality places a pig sty when finishing meal and leaving during holiday season
It’s hard for hospitality places because they don’t have time to clean up after them, the workers only want to do the standard clean up ready for next customer
Am no longer in it and glad about that, it seems to have gotten worse in last 5-10 years with clean ups and customers, whys that
There’s never enough toilets at ground level at kadina hungry jacks in holiday season and everyone is taking the downstairs toilet and you either can’t or don’t feel like going up stairs to main area and you need to go badly and have to suffer going up stairs and it’s worse at holiday season and sometimes you want to give someone the hurry on like a 1946-1950 boomer would
Sometimes you got to force yourself up the stairs and you can’t or don’t want to, How come the toilet is worse in holiday season everyone these days especially young ones seems to go to fast food joints instead of bakeries why’s that
Our school deputy principal said one time unfortunately we’re dealing with a generation of entitled people and that deputy is probably a young gen x born in around 1972 and me as a older millennial born in 1987 agrees and the principal said someone yelled out and said oh that’s right walk when she had a chat with someone
How come people especially city people and kids always go to fast food and take up all seats at places like hungry jacks and don’t think of people like me that need to sit for 10 minutes or doesn’t want to go up stairs to the main dining area causing us to have to pay more to go elsewhere or reschedule which we shouldn’t have to because of them if some have only got the money for cheap fast food
How come seating is worse in holidays especially younger generations
How come everyone wants fast food instead of local, at certain times of year there’s never enough seats for people like me who need a rest It’s always the capital city people And they blow the horn at locals It’s more holidays and long weekends Are older millennials and younger gen x like it because they’ve earnt it after 15-20 years of work
Kids sitting at fast food outlets don’t think to get off their bums unless you ask and let someone like me sit for even 5-10 minutes to have a rest or have short break from standing and walking while we’re waiting for a meal as there’s people my age and older (me included that is and gets really tired and flat
9. social:
Was wondering how you can find people to have a bbq with without having to ask a public place to have one before they’re ready Don’t have enough family near by to do it at moment and have no friends Gave up weekends and once hurt knee and once hurt ankle and everyone else had years and years to build Is that why my generation and above aren’t doing hospitality and retail anymore and those that are doing it still are in reception and easier roles.
Is there a instant way to find someone to sit with you like that without paying or is paying the only fast instant way Plus where can you go to have that care besides your bedroom if your place you live at doesn’t have a second lounge room where it’s warm to have that comfy reclined position with blanket on you and someone sitting with you
how do you find someone to sit with you with you reclined with a blanket over you
How do you instantly find a woman to see a movie with and what is a way to see a movie with a woman other than cinema without your own place and be warm in cooler weather Seems that contnually paying for company is only way Seems paying for company is only instant way Want one on one now not tomorrow not weeks but now How do you get free sessions in a care plan
How do you find someone to hug you long hug when you have nobody?
10. kids in library:
was wondering why kids after school are so noisy and less courteous of other patrons, we shouldnt have to adjust our time because of entitled kids and cater to them or be forced to pay for alternative accommodation, which is generation of entitled and noisy kids, am thinking younger gen z and future generations
what could you do to get away from them without changing the time you go because of them.
11. hospitality:
Where’s the hospitality workers the young ones don’t want to step up and the older millennials and younger gen x and those above are aging out meaning older millennials and younger gen x are moving onto better things and older gen x and boomers are cutting back or retiring which is fair enough they myself included worked hard gave up our weekends and holidays and now want to enjoy our hard work.
how come younger generations arent stepping up
12. another father:
how would you find another father
because the real father isnt much of a father and since my mother died in 2005 have basically lost 2 parents
the makeshift father isnt as well as he used to be and dont have a girlfriend yet who might have a father
do go to a mens shed but thats as close as will get
also was wondering how you would get another chance to try and repair shower screens and be around people that do odd jobs maybe leading to having to do it so you can get another chance because cant afford the insurance for running a handyman thing all because of the younger generations that caused the price rises.
the reason also is because dont have a proper father who again might lead to that and other odd jobs.
have also accepted that will never get to buy own place and its all because of younger generations (those born post 1995, though not all) that caused the price rises and the financial mess and the older millennials and above who havent yet bought or had to start again will never get to buy.
and also dont have own private bathrooom where am living.
it seems everythings gone downhill since mother died 20 years ago.
if anyones got answers it would be appreciated, dont want to have to take short cuts and do something you shouldnt but can see it coming and hope it doesnt get to that stage.
thanks
as title says am going through a few things and need someone to talk to and anyone who will listen.
1. how to get the hospital like care without anything medical or at least not major:
was wondering how to get the hospital like care and comfort where someone checks on you or looks after you like youre in hospital or recovering from something or both, what am looking for is to be cared for or the comfort like you are in hospital, dont want to wait until something happens to get it and dont want to go through anything medical or at least not anything major.
is there a way to get it or is letting something get worse the only way, where can you go to get that comfort and care.
2. experience being pushed in wheelchair even if you take turns pushing each other:
was wondering how you would be able to experience someone pushing you in wheelchair even for fun even if taking turns pushing each other.
quite a few years ago as a kid have got to experience being pushed in wheelchair or use one for fun and wish to re create that, is there anywhere in the kadina, wallaroo, moonta area where you can find someone to give that experience as am not in a position to travel to adelaide in own car at moment, driving is not the issue, its because cars not currently ready and upto the trip but isnt bad for driving in the immediate area.
is there a way to ask someone in the copper coast are to give the experience or is it time for the tough chat with a family member.
is there a minor medical reason you might be able to get wheeled to your car from a doctors or a hospital in copper coast even if you can drive away from premises after and how would you be able to ask to be wheeled to car.
would doctors clinic or hospitals have one, would the wallaroo (sa) hospital have a section that does vaccinations.
3. resting in reclined position:
was wondering how you would go about being able to recline in rested position and have family or a friend sit with you for a bit.
am wanting to have the comfort and care you would get if youre hurt or sick but without waiting to need to go to the hospital or anything major medical and have someone sit with you and care for you like when youre recovering from something but without going that extreme if not needed.
is there a way to make it happen without having to present to emergency if not needed even though youre nowhere near breaking point or can you just present there and just wait until someone is free if theyre busy which is same as calling ambulance for non urgent and just wait until they can come.
is there also a way without going ndis if you dont want it or without taking own car out the immediate local area until its restored (it is not bad for immediate area, just not long distance or take certain people currently)
how would you get to rest in a reclined position and have someone give the comfort and care like when recovering from something.
there was someone with a illness who rested in a recliner with blanket and family were there and would like the same and dont know how to go about it, sisters moved away and her coming for couple days or someone taking you there is the only way because of cars current condition and your choice to keep it and gradually fix it up.
also where do you go that has warm heater and a recliner when your place doesn't have a second lounge room or you dont have own space with lounge room and kitchen.
4. meaningful conversations:
wondering how you would be able to find friends and a friend to have meaningful conversations with.
what am wanting is a girl and a friend to have meaningful conversations with about things and am feeling behind.
have worked in hospitality which means worked weekends for 15 years until 2024 when leaving due to sale of business and only had a year to rebuild social side and its not long enough or hasnt been long enough to rebuild.
where as others my age have probably had more time to build their social life because of not working weekends for as long as me and most have probably moved on by age 25 onto different careers thats closer to monday-friday no weekends/evenings/holidays, where as myself have stayed too long in my old job and some days am wishing that had left old job post lockdown like all the other middle aged and older workers did and not stay as long as have stayed.
what is a short term solution while continuing to work on a better solution
also how and what could you do to organize a birthday for someone when you dont have many siblings and friends and without becoming a events manager as am not willing to work in hospitality again as done my time in hospitality and it wont be happening again.
also how do you ask for one on one time with your sister for a big birthday when you dont have a female friend or a friend to hang out with.
what could be done for now.
5. hair model:
came across a tiktok video of a girl whos lost her mother and her brother styled her hair for her to cheer her up.
what has happened is that it upset me because of missing out and am really wanting to re create that experience with sister or girl my age, the video reminded me of how much am wanting meaningful moments with a girl my age.
this year is 20 years since my mothers been gone and that same year was my year 12 formal and took a cousin and it also reminded me,
how do you find someone willing, plan to ask sister if shes willing or can reccomend someone.
feel left out and am missing out on these meaningful moments
6. finding someone:
was wondering how you can find another girl to dress up a little with because have got no one.
the only one that can think of is the adelaide sister even though its harder now shes moved away even though its not impossible.
the only other thing that can think of is maybe offer for a second cousin, but own car isnt up to travelling the distance at moment.
a couple of months ago the ex bosses neice had a school formal in kadina and had no invitaion and the old tv antenna installers they also know were there for some of it and felt left out, especially because there is no one else thats doing a milestone anytime soon and you dont have anyone else.
am looking for female connections to dress up with and companionships and special moments, and younger women to guide.
also got a younger sister whos trans gender and parents support it so the option of her is out and have no one else.
if had known how bad things were back when the formal was happening would have asked the ex bosses sister if itd be ok to go watch it potentially leading to photos explaining what things are really like, same goes with the school that volunteer at even to help in any way but didnt know how bad things were.
how would you start off with a anom fb post asking if theres single people in kadina wallaroo moonta area that are 20-40 and also where people that age go to hang out in that area.
what else can you do to dress up a little with women and watch a milestone with some.
travelling adelaide in own car is still not a option yet.
please help am feeling left out
7. roleplay:
wondering where and how you can find friends and people your age (25-40) particularly women where you can pair up and take turns playing patient and paramedic and bandaging each other and using crutches.
years ago have sort of played paramedic and patient with a cousin when younger when she stayed at a uncles and we lived there while waiting for house to be built.
also only a year after that have seen kids at school pretending to be hurt.
want to re create that and make it regular.
has anyone got ideas on how to best go about it and finding space other than home which isn’t a option as it’s a little desperate
8. courtesy:
How come some places especially some fast food don’t have as many tables as they used to, bakeries and restaurants and cafes are no problem still
How come hungry jacks and otr in kadina was build poorly with mainly upstairs dining and toilets and not enough ground level dining and toilets for people who can’t or don’t feel like going upstairs but they seem to have to force themselves to, mcdonalds are no major problem
Shouldn’t have to adjust time because of certain people and crowds Kids take over libraries after school and shouldn’t have to adjust because of them and it wasn’t as bad 15-20 years ago
How come younger generations of planners and leaders aren’t as courteous in planning
How come city people especially younger ones leave tables at hospitality places a pig sty when finishing meal and leaving during holiday season
It’s hard for hospitality places because they don’t have time to clean up after them, the workers only want to do the standard clean up ready for next customer
Am no longer in it and glad about that, it seems to have gotten worse in last 5-10 years with clean ups and customers, whys that
There’s never enough toilets at ground level at kadina hungry jacks in holiday season and everyone is taking the downstairs toilet and you either can’t or don’t feel like going up stairs to main area and you need to go badly and have to suffer going up stairs and it’s worse at holiday season and sometimes you want to give someone the hurry on like a 1946-1950 boomer would
Sometimes you got to force yourself up the stairs and you can’t or don’t want to, How come the toilet is worse in holiday season everyone these days especially young ones seems to go to fast food joints instead of bakeries why’s that
Our school deputy principal said one time unfortunately we’re dealing with a generation of entitled people and that deputy is probably a young gen x born in around 1972 and me as a older millennial born in 1987 agrees and the principal said someone yelled out and said oh that’s right walk when she had a chat with someone
How come people especially city people and kids always go to fast food and take up all seats at places like hungry jacks and don’t think of people like me that need to sit for 10 minutes or doesn’t want to go up stairs to the main dining area causing us to have to pay more to go elsewhere or reschedule which we shouldn’t have to because of them if some have only got the money for cheap fast food
How come seating is worse in holidays especially younger generations
How come everyone wants fast food instead of local, at certain times of year there’s never enough seats for people like me who need a rest It’s always the capital city people And they blow the horn at locals It’s more holidays and long weekends Are older millennials and younger gen x like it because they’ve earnt it after 15-20 years of work
Kids sitting at fast food outlets don’t think to get off their bums unless you ask and let someone like me sit for even 5-10 minutes to have a rest or have short break from standing and walking while we’re waiting for a meal as there’s people my age and older (me included that is and gets really tired and flat
9. social:
Was wondering how you can find people to have a bbq with without having to ask a public place to have one before they’re ready Don’t have enough family near by to do it at moment and have no friends Gave up weekends and once hurt knee and once hurt ankle and everyone else had years and years to build Is that why my generation and above aren’t doing hospitality and retail anymore and those that are doing it still are in reception and easier roles.
Is there a instant way to find someone to sit with you like that without paying or is paying the only fast instant way Plus where can you go to have that care besides your bedroom if your place you live at doesn’t have a second lounge room where it’s warm to have that comfy reclined position with blanket on you and someone sitting with you
how do you find someone to sit with you with you reclined with a blanket over you
How do you instantly find a woman to see a movie with and what is a way to see a movie with a woman other than cinema without your own place and be warm in cooler weather Seems that contnually paying for company is only way Seems paying for company is only instant way Want one on one now not tomorrow not weeks but now How do you get free sessions in a care plan
How do you find someone to hug you long hug when you have nobody?
10. kids in library:
was wondering why kids after school are so noisy and less courteous of other patrons, we shouldnt have to adjust our time because of entitled kids and cater to them or be forced to pay for alternative accommodation, which is generation of entitled and noisy kids, am thinking younger gen z and future generations
what could you do to get away from them without changing the time you go because of them.
11. hospitality:
Where’s the hospitality workers the young ones don’t want to step up and the older millennials and younger gen x and those above are aging out meaning older millennials and younger gen x are moving onto better things and older gen x and boomers are cutting back or retiring which is fair enough they myself included worked hard gave up our weekends and holidays and now want to enjoy our hard work.
how come younger generations arent stepping up
12. another father:
how would you find another father
because the real father isnt much of a father and since my mother died in 2005 have basically lost 2 parents
the makeshift father isnt as well as he used to be and dont have a girlfriend yet who might have a father
do go to a mens shed but thats as close as will get
also was wondering how you would get another chance to try and repair shower screens and be around people that do odd jobs maybe leading to having to do it so you can get another chance because cant afford the insurance for running a handyman thing all because of the younger generations that caused the price rises.
the reason also is because dont have a proper father who again might lead to that and other odd jobs.
have also accepted that will never get to buy own place and its all because of younger generations (those born post 1995, though not all) that caused the price rises and the financial mess and the older millennials and above who havent yet bought or had to start again will never get to buy.
and also dont have own private bathrooom where am living.
it seems everythings gone downhill since mother died 20 years ago.
if anyones got answers it would be appreciated, dont want to have to take short cuts and do something you shouldnt but can see it coming and hope it doesnt get to that stage.
thanks
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