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[Uglyunwanted]

Really need advice I'm going through hell trying to understand. So I met my partner as a working girl then i didnt see him for over a year because i started a relationship with someone else. I then started working again and got in contact with my partner Scott. We decided not to commit to each other until I got money to take my grandmother on holiday. I got enough money 1 month before I had in mind so I stopped working. I was and still am a insecure woman with confidence issues and low self esteem even more so now. He knew how much I hated my body 2 years ago. I was also realistic and said we can watch porn together but please don't do it behind my back. When we started being commited I did everything to please him dressed up as a school girl and we went to the woods for some fun, wore a nurses outfit, a maids outfit and cleaned his flat, dressed up in anything like stockings,suspenders ,cupless bras, toys, sent him photos and videos, even got another girl for us to play with. I'd swallow his cum and even let him fuck my ass and cum inside it because that's what he wanted. I did anything he asked and more.

A few month went by them found out he was watching porn behind my back. While I was in bed with cold, in the morning when he woke up early for work, when i went to bed late and when I wasn't there ( basically any time he could ) but didn't break up with him my self image just got worse. When we talked about it Scott admitted he was a " porn addict ". I dont know why but i asked him if he came for any of the girls and he said " no he was thinking of me " which didnt make sense at the time I just replied " i feel sick your thinking about me while watching that. Its disgusting. " we have broke up a few times most recently a in February. When we got back together he admitted hed watched porn and told me that he came at the end of the " scene " because he thought about me.

Last weekend me and my partner took Molly over the weekend and i was just blurting out things I have thought about but didn't want to be honest with him. And I thought maybe he can be honest with me too. About the way he really feels about me I asked him if he only wants me and is only turned on by me. He said yes he's always only wanted me along with a few other heartfelt things i was happy along with rushing and buzzing..... ops sorry getting carried away. Then Tuesday evening I started thinking about him watching porn and i got confused and unerved because if hes only attracted to me and only wants me then how could he cum for another woman or watch another women naked showing her beautiful body behind my back?. I asked him if the girls he had watched made him cum and he said that they ment nothing, he didnt think about them and he thought about me while watching them OR HE WAS HORNY that's why he came.

But Why would he think about a disgusting repulsive woman like me when there is a beautiful attractive woman infront of him ( even if it is just a video)? Can a man watch porn without thinking about whats infront of him and think about his partner? What I don't understand is if he wasnt thinking about the girls on porn then how on earth would he be aroused to cum?. Something had to make him horny to cum and if he was watching porn it had to be the porn? Right? or could he have thought about me before putting the porn on? Or could him watching porn triggered him to think about me? Or is he lying and im truely disgusting and repulsive? I asked my uncle this and he agreed with me and told me that he wasnt thinking about me and if scott came he came because of what is infront of him. could anyone enlighten me?

[Tina]

Don't give 'boys' like that the time of day. You're worth more than he clearly realizes. If he really loves you, he wouldn't even bother with porn. Think about it, if he's more than enough for you, then you should be more than enough for him as well. It needs to go both ways in a relationship.

Either he stops watching it altogether and realizes how disrespectful that is to you as his partner, or someone else will treat you with the respect that you deserve.

Too many immature boys are sucked into porn and have no idea they're addicted to it. It might not seem like a big deal now, but think about what a future with him might be like. Does he look like he's planning to stop watching it anytime soon? No? Most of the women on porn are between the ages of 15–30. If you're planning to have a family with this person and he has no intentions of quitting porn, then that means one day he's still going to be masturbating and fantasizing about girls the same age as your now adolescent kids, or more specifically, girls the same age as his own daughter.

Ask yourself honestly, does that sound like the kind of relationship or marriage you want to have…?

The moment that more men and women begin realizing how seriously porn affects every aspect of their minds, the sooner people will stop normalizing it and have healthier sexual relationships . Because the fact of the matter is, that we are all more than enough.

[Jerome]

I watch porn. That doesn’t mean my girlfriend is not sexy enough. She’s so damn sexy by the way.

When I watch porn, the sexiness of my girlfriend doesn’t suddenly reduce nor compared to that of pornstars. They have different tastes of (great) sexiness altogether.

I like sushy. I also like ice cream. Different food types and tastes, with different scales of awesomeness.

However, for your sake, communicate your case with your boyfriend and see what his response is.

[Maggie]

On that note....should I be concerned my guy watches porn in am to get off before work ?

[Myuniversewithin]

Hi.. I agree with Jerome. I love to watch porn sometimes. And I love my wife more than that. And most imoeotant thing in my life is to take care of iwife, giving maximum pleasure and comfort to her in all aspects including sex.

So I give her enough space to explore herself in bed, encourages her to live her fantasies. It gives me pleasure to see her enjoying in bed with me.

So both are different things I feel. I wait for other's views.

[ItWasntMe]

Porn in some form has been around a long time, but not until the Internet has it become such a problem. People become addicted because it actually releases dopamine in their brains. Porn is very destructive to many people. It has destroyed marriages and lives. It has led to rape, sexual abuse and child molestation. There’s nothing good about it all. Those people are actors. Most are strung out on drugs. Many are victims of sex trafficking.

That being said, not everyone is affected that badly by it, but your boyfriend is in a bad place. He will never be satisfied. He doesn’t think you’re not attractive. Clearly he does desire you. This isn’t even about you. It’s about feeding that rush. It’s like a drug. They’ve studied this clinically and proven it. If he loves you he’ll get help to stop, but don’t expect him to be able to do it easily. Help him just like you would someone trying to quit any other addiction.

[Sheila321]

I watch porn myself and if im tired i will tell my boyfriend to go and put it on and sort himself out however the other day i went mental when he put a music video on with half naked girls. I feel secure enough that he watches stuff quietly but i know but

[xasiboy]

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