I pretended to be a girl, now he wants to see me. HELP!

[beautygurly]

Whenever I sign up in online dating sites, I also set a fake profile of a girl. The reason is that when I have a man’s profile, I tend to get frowned by my dating prospects -- men. Yes, I am gay but not the one who tries to look like a woman. Continuing, I found a foreign guy online. He’s cute and I messaged him. After a couple of minutes, he replied and that is when our daily conversations started. I never told him that I’m gay which is why I always turn down his video call requests. However, this is something different. He came to my country a few days ago and said he wanted to see me and everything. I got excited but it came to me that he doesn’t know I am not really a lady, but instead a lady trapped in a man’s body. LOL. kidding aside, how do I handle this?

[Michael]

There is no way to handle to this, but to avoid seeing him. He's expecting a woman and not a man, so going there to explain yourself to him that you are a man is going to make him land a punch on your face.

[Nora]

You already made a mistake by using a woman's photo. I think you should cut you loss, and learn from your lesson.

[bunnyhabit]

dress up as your female alter and get cozy with him to a point. no pun intended