So often, I hear from people going through tough times in their relationships, and today, I want to address a topic that hits hard: "My husband slept with another woman while we were separated." It's a gut-wrenching situation, and I'm here to offer some informal, heartfelt advice to help you navigate this emotional rollercoaster.
A while back, I received a message from a client who had gone through a challenging separation. She told me about how her world had turned upside...
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My Husband Slept With Another Woman While We Were Separated
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Creating Drama is Never the Answer for Marriage Problems
Can drama help a relationship? Most couples would unanimously agree that the answer is no. Yet, believe it or not, some couples use drama as a form of excitement in their relationship. They get a rush from the occasional argument and enjoy the make-up sex that follows.
But drama does more harm than good in a marriage. What started out as a spark of drama can quickly turn into embarrassing public arguments, using intimacy as a bargaining chip, and freezing one another out.
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Understand The Mystery Of Attraction And You'll Be More Attractive (Here's How)
Recently, I got into a conversation with some friends over dinner about the subject of "attraction".
After several minutes of discussion, a somewhat amazing revelation hit me. Each respective person at the table had a different working definition for the word.
One person seemed to believe it was synonymous with "physically good looking".
Someone else was talking as if it meant all those things that matter other than physical looks, and... -
3 Signs She's About To Trick You (And 5 Signs She's Sincere)
Most of us as guys get a raging case of "Tunnel Vision Disorder" when it comes to getting a woman we like to go out on a date with us.
We lock on to that as a goal, and it's all we care about.
As such, sometimes we end up going on dates with women we should never have agreed to, and we end up "hornswaggled".
"Hoodwinked". "Bamboozled". "Flim-flammed". TRICKED.
We might even fall into the trap... -
in ArticlesPleasure, Pain And Fantasies Of Meeting Women
Okay, here's a quick exercise for you that should be fun.
Close your eyes and fantasize about something or someone.
Got a mental picture rolling? Okay good...
I have no idea how you're reading this with your eyes closed, but never mind that. By now I've made my point, which is this...
My bet is that regardless of what you just fantasized about, it distinctly involved something pleasurable.
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in ArticlesApproaching Women: Is This As Bad As It Gets?
How big a deal is the whole idea of approaching women without fear of rejection? Well, it's pretty massive.
So much so that almost invariably whenever I write about anything other than that, I get at least one e-mail or comment to the effect of, "Yeah, but...you didn't tell us how to meet women and deal with rejection."
Well, this time I don't plan on getting any such messages. That's because today we're going to hit that most sensitive of subjects.
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How To Be A Cooler Guy...Immediately
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Today I've got one of those rare but wonderful nuggets of knowledge that can actually bring you immediate gratification.
That's right...INSTANT results. There's no hard work, practice or memorization necessary.
It's a simple mindset adjustment that'll make everyone you meet stop and think to themselves, "Man, is that ever a cool guy."
Here it is:
Be both INFORMED and INQUISITIVE when interacting with others.
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The Net That Guys Who Are Virgins Tend To Get Trapped In
I'm not going to admit to how often I get letters that read similarly to the following, because it's just too staggering a number:
"I hate women, I hate you for saying nice things about them in your articles, and I firmly believe every last one of them is going to betray me and take me for everything I've got. ...By the way, I'm still a virgin. Can you get me laid?"
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6 Differences Between Girls And Women
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Women not girls rule my world
I said they rule my world
Act your age, mama (not your shoe size)
--"Kiss" by Prince
Let's have some fun today. How about we delve into an area where even angels fear to tread?
Let's talk about the practical differences between "girls" and "women".
Now, one of the things you'll notice is that I rarely refer to eligible members of the female... -
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The Best Days And Times To Schedule Dates
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Here's one particular factor that almost never gets discussed by anyone in the field of dating and seduction advice.
That's when to schedule a date. I mean, what are the best days--and specific times on those days--to arrange meetings with women?
The answer is "it depends", which is precisely why you may not have seen much written on this subject.
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Asking Women To Hang Out With You Sometime
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No doubt, you definitely don't want to use that infamous "D" word when talking to a woman about potentially meeting up with her face-to-face for the first time.
The idea of "dating" sounds WAY to formal, and pre-loads the time you'll spend with her with unnecessary pressure.
So then, as you may know already I've always favored the suggestion, "let's make plans" instead as a powerful three-word phrase to convey to a woman that you'd like to... -
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Stopping Supermodels On The Street...Making Out In Under A Minute
Being a perfectly normal guy, I'm going to openly admit to something. See if you're with me on this.
I have no patience for learning "fundamentals".
Never mind that Tim Duncan is arguably the best power forward in the history of the NBA, all because he's a master of the basics.
Sure, you'll see him bank a shot off the glass 25 times for every slam dunk.
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Women At Their Most Beautiful
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Here's the question du jour, mon frere:
When is a woman at her MOST beautiful?
If you're a red-blooded, perfectly normal man your knee-jerk answer may have been something to the effect of, "when she's naked in my bed."
If your answer involved a more explicit sexual act, I can't really fault you for that either.
And I'm not going to argue with you.
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Top 10 Examples Of Bad Dating Advice From Miserable People
I've got a "top ten" list of examples of the kind of negative advice you may have received in the past from "poverty" types.
Remember, this sort of admonition can be delivered with a smile. At times, someone may actually even think he or she is giving good advice, having grown so accustomed to the comfort of not having to succeed.
So in the end, you and only you can be counted on to have the wisdom to see which mindset someone is coming from.
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What To Do When Your Ex Won't Let You Go
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I'm sure that you've seen books out there on "how to get your ex back". They're immensely popular because let's face it, sometimes breakups happen that we didn't wish for.
And when someone we feel like we're passionately in love with dumps us it hurts...badly.
Now, the plain truth is that as you become more of a chooser than a chaser you'll have more power over your dating life.
That means YOU are soon (if not already) going to be the one breaking... -
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