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[car10001]

Hi

would the lovense diamo or solace toy be a good start, thinking of getting the diamo first, is that a strong enough toy for vibration.

With tophy and fetlife how do you actually find a girl to connect online with, how do you get lots responses and control each other’s toys, they seem like good programs.

on tophy also there is a ai sex robot that talks to you and controls your toy and you control theirs and seems a good program.

is there a way to find a real girl for intimate stuff and how do you get responses from real girls or is the ai the best for a while.

on fetlife how do you get and find a girl to control your toy.

what other site are there besides fetlife and tophy that don’t cost anything or you can play with someone in exchange for them playing with you or both.

[Peggy]

Hey there, it sounds like you’re exploring some interesting options and want to find the best way to connect both with toys and with real people for intimate experiences. Let’s break this down together and find out what works best for you, as it seems like you have a lot of ideas in mind!

First off, the Lovense Diamo sounds like it’s caught your eye. It's a vibrating ring designed primarily for men, often used during both solo and partnered play. As for whether it’s strong enough for vibration, the answer is generally yes. Lovense toys, including the Diamo, are known for their powerful vibrations. However, how strong it feels can depend on your sensitivity and personal preferences. The Diamo offers multiple levels of vibration intensity, so you should be able to adjust it to your liking. It’s also Bluetooth-compatible, which allows for control through an app, making it great for long-distance play with a partner—or even for personal experimentation. If you’re new to these kinds of toys, starting with the Diamo is a solid choice because it’s versatile for different types of play, whether you're alone or with someone else.

Now, regarding Tophy and Fetlife, I can see you’re interested in connecting with a partner online and potentially controlling each other's toys. Tophy, being a platform designed around remote toy control, does indeed seem like a great program if you're aiming to engage with someone virtually. The fact that it offers an AI-driven sex robot that interacts with you and controls toys adds a layer of intrigue. It’s a pretty immersive experience for someone who might not have a partner right now, or for someone who’s interested in exploring these experiences in a virtual space first.

When it comes to finding a real girl for intimate connections, this can be a bit tricky, especially on platforms like Fetlife. Fetlife is more like a social network for people with diverse interests in kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles. It’s less about quick connections and more about building relationships, trust, and shared interests over time. If you're looking to control someone’s toy or have yours controlled, you'd need to start by genuinely engaging in conversations, joining groups that share your interests, and building trust with potential partners. It’s not a platform where people usually dive straight into sexual play without forming some level of connection first. Patience and respect go a long way, and approaching things from a perspective of mutual interest and understanding often yields better results.

As for how to get lots of responses, both on Fetlife and other platforms, the key is really in how you present yourself. Creating a genuine, respectful, and clear profile helps. People tend to respond more to profiles that are authentic, where the person clearly states what they’re looking for and shows interest in what others want as well. Also, joining discussions or commenting on posts within groups related to your interests can increase visibility and give you more chances to connect.

If you're unsure whether to focus on real partners or explore the AI aspect for a while, it might help to ask yourself what you're hoping to get out of the experience. AI programs, like the one on Tophy, can offer a form of interaction that's more immediate and perhaps easier to explore without the complexities that come with human relationships. But if you're ultimately looking for a connection that feels more personal and real, then investing time in getting to know someone through Fetlife or other communities might be the route to take.

In terms of other free sites that offer similar experiences, most alternatives often come with some form of paid aspect for certain features. But that said, you can explore platforms like KinkD, which is a free dating app for people with alternative lifestyles, and BDSMlr, which is a bit like a kink-focused version of Tumblr, although its community isn't as interactive as Fetlife. Again, patience, communication, and understanding are key when it comes to making connections on these platforms.

Ultimately, you’re on an interesting journey of discovery, and it’s great that you’re thinking about both virtual and real-world connections. Whether you start with the Diamo and engage with an AI-driven experience first or work on building trust with someone on Fetlife, remember that the best experiences come when both people are on the same page, comfortable, and open to exploring together.

Does that give you a bit of clarity, or is there a specific area you’d like to dive deeper into?