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		<title>Relationship Talk Forum - Blindsided by him</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I need insight. Simply &quot;get over it&quot; won't help because I'm already trying to. It's been a year and a half.

Fast forward he brings up if we'd meet other people, he'd be crushed and more than jealous, I told him I wouldn't be thrilled but I did feel our age difference made me unrelatable to him.
However, I wanted to have a conversation with him about the whole thing and reach a clear understanding. Before I could I was busy with class and my jobs. The last conversation we had was us not wanting to meet other people. Then I wasn't hearing from him as much. All of a sudden he up and took a trip and sent texts that didn't even sound like him. So I was confused because right before he swore it would be highly unlikely he meet someone, was just bringing up the topic then he made plans for us to spend the holidays together, then became distant.

So he ends up telling me he met someone else, we could still hang out, he cared about me in a quick conversation before we had to head to our destinations. It hurt because he assured me not to worry about where we were, yet pulls this. I feel as though he was trying to beat me to the punch when all I wanted was to get more understanding between us but not necessarily see other people. I need insight on what this says about his personality because would a really good guy switch up like that in a matter of WEEKS after this long. To me I feel as if he had met whomever when he brought it up, they got busy and he was probably given the ultimatum. Yet I'm crushed but wouldn't want to be with someone who knowingly would pull that after assuring me. I'm not even sure if he's been seeing this person longer than he says. Basically I think because I had been so busy he assumed I had already met someone yet strung me along as he started looking for someone else and wanted to be in control of when it ended. He had been making comments like he thought I was into someone else.

But where I'm conflicted is that he says we can still be friends and when I told him I was hurt by all of it, he said he would feel the same way and the look on his face just said &quot; I wasn't going to let it be me &quot; then as I walked away he tried to give me a compliment on how great I looked, which I smiled and responded because I didn't want to cry in front of him. I just wonder if it's worth being friends? How can I respect him or look at him the same....we didn't have much time for me to ask questions so I feel as though a more in depth closure needs to take place without him thinking I'm so hung up.

His actions have me so confused, while feel the need to still be friends with me if you move that fast say one thing then do another in a matterrible of 2 weeks after all of this time. I've rejected so many guys fir him and need advice from the outside without the emotional cloud that I am in because my minds all over the place.]]></description>
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