I'm Still Sort Of a Virgin Because I Feel like I Don't Have a Big Dick

[Jerome]

I'm 28 and I'm still sort of a virgin, I feel like I don't have a big dick and that's been the biggest reason why I haven't.. to scared to show it off to girls. Don't get me wrong, theirs been plenty of times where I could have, but I just end up backing down because I feel insecure of my size. this shit really sucks. My hole body is blue.

[Becky]

Women tend to prefer average or small ahh, packages, too large and it can be a very uncomfortable experience. The only thing that is unattractive is a man with no self esteem, try working on that before worrying about your physical 'issues'.

[Drake]

Dude. Seriously get an escort/hooker and go to town on her. Rabbit fk her if you're not packing (do it very fast!) You'll feel so much better and more confident.

[Jerome]

This is serious! Thanks for the replies, but why is it that the only girl on here gave the best advice? you guys should be helping me out, not her... Also I would never get an escort, not my style. I want to make love to a girl not "fuck her"

[John]

Also important to remember: why do you even think it's not that big? If you're a straight male, you shouldn't have that much to compare to. Porn of course offers examples of other men, but porn is not, and I repeat, is NOT representative of real (or a better term, average) bodies. Long story short: I don't know what your junk looks like - tbh, I rather don't want to know - but I think I can safely say this: you're probably making more of a fuss out of it than it really is.

[Terry]

Then try to compensate by buying a big 4x4... Just kidding.. u should not be giving a fck about this, just go out and fck some girls u dont know and you'll probably never meet again, then you'll probably start to feel better, u need some more self-esteem, even if u r maybe "small" u don't have a case of "micro-penis", do u ? so just man the fck up

[Jerome]

Thanks John. And everyone else to posted.

[Becky]

Comments like that come hand in hand with the territory i'm afraid, the best thing you can do is build up your confidence - to a woman, (not all, but most) it is what they think of you, not how you look! Body language, smell, voice, all create an impression that if used correctly will make you very attractive regardless of looks: passion, by far is the most attractive feature in a man, look at Meatloaf, he may not be a stereotypical example of manly looks but when he sings, damn! Make yourself happy, and then you can be happy with someone else.

[Jerome]

Thanks Becky, I honestly thought the guys on here where going to be a huge helped, turned out you where the biggest help here and for that I thank you. I am a confident man, but I think it's just like the video said, I need to stop thinking & watching all that porn, because that's not how things actually are.

[Elliot]

I was in a similar position as you man. Trust me insecurity is the biggest mood killer. Luckily the way women get off isn't as simple as ours. This video makes some good points by making the experience more about her. This might sound weird but try to have sex as much as you can. The more experience you have the more you'll realize size isn't as important as you make it out to be. (Also kind of depends on the girl but still.) Try to focus on improving the other parts of "making love" as you call it. It isn't just thrusting about like a dog. A good place to start would be getting better at going down on a girl.

[Drake]

Honestly, big penises aren't all what they're cracked up to be. They can be rather discomforting. Regardless of anything, once your penis is inside it will penetrate and massage the nerve endings, which will feel good. Be sure to keep good positioning and motion. Stimulate her clitoris with your fingers and even try oral as well. In the end you should be alright. P.S. A friend of mine is dating a guy with a "small penis" and she has great sex with him. It ain't about the size of the boat, but the motion in the ocean.

[Jerome]

Why is their so many girls here! Also, your friend told you he had a small dick? Dude fuck this! This totally makes me feel even me more insecure, I can't believe girls share this type of shit to each other.

[Gray]

Hey if you don't think your junk isn't good enough. focus on hand stuff and mouth stuff . most girls find it difficult it climax via insertion. I mean I'm no slouch when it comes to size, but I can't make my lady squirm like I can with my tongue . or if you have a close enough relationship that you would feel comfortable using toys in addition to yourself. to be completely honest it is a fact that a man's junk looks smaller to himself than it does to other people. don't compare yourself to porn actors that is just let down waiting to happen. the national average is a little under 5 inches, and it's the girth that ladies like.

[Damian]

Bro I felt the same way. Girls always seemed interested in sex but I was too ashamed about my dick size. One day I had this girl over and she just reached over and starred massaging my dick. I was horrified. She ended up saying I had a big dick. Point being, you just gotta jump and not look back.

[Barry]

Dude im gonna be 28 in February..still a Virgin never touched a woman Before...my penis is just 5,5 inches im a very insecure man..and I have this worryness that I will ejaculate within a few seconds and totally embarrass myself...im also a very skinny guy...so I have avoided sex altogether...im thinking of just fucking a Hooker..but even that is too hard for me I still overthink...im forever alone it seems =/