Here's an interesting question raised a couple of nights ago with a woman I met online, then met at happy hour for a drink (which stretched to 5 hrs.), and had over for dinner the next night. We slept together after dinner (both nude) but had no sex based on her request, which was fine with me. We talked about every sexual subject under the sun and were having fun just getting to know each other. It was a natural and pleasurable process.
I was telling her about my perceptions of female sexuality and the 4 genital erogenous zones that turn most women on to a greater or lesser degree (C, U, G, and A spots). Although this is an attractive older woman who has been married twice and has been around the block (former Miss), she told me that she can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation and didn't even seem to be aware of her U or G spots, let alone her anterior and posterior deep spots. But the kicker is her claim that all of the internal stimulation techniques are essentially irrelevant because her vaginal canal is only so big and that a normal sized penis doing its normal work inside her virgina will hit all the spots and produce the required results. She also claims that she is normally capable of only one orgasm during a love making session.
Since we plan to see each other again soon and will almost certainly have sex, I was wondering what your thoughts are about her claim of automatic stimulation of all erogenous zones in her vaginal canal. My method is normally to start with clitoral, then U spot stimulation, then to add the G spot, all orally or digitally treated, and sometimes the deep spot if I can reach that far (I have normal sized fingers and can reach the cervix on some women but not on others). Normally a woman has climaxed one or more times by the time I penetrate her and then we go for the gold. I normally hold off climaxing until I sense that she has vaginally climaxed or is in the process of doing so, so that we can "come together."
Do you agree with her contention that penile penetration will do the trick alone since it will hit all her spots if done correctly, thus eliminating the need for internal digital stimulation of her G and A spots? I am very aware of the trust and emotional connection feelings that come into play and enhance the experience for her as well as me. But my inclination is to still manually stimulate her internally before penetrating her.
I was telling her about my perceptions of female sexuality and the 4 genital erogenous zones that turn most women on to a greater or lesser degree (C, U, G, and A spots). Although this is an attractive older woman who has been married twice and has been around the block (former Miss), she told me that she can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation and didn't even seem to be aware of her U or G spots, let alone her anterior and posterior deep spots. But the kicker is her claim that all of the internal stimulation techniques are essentially irrelevant because her vaginal canal is only so big and that a normal sized penis doing its normal work inside her virgina will hit all the spots and produce the required results. She also claims that she is normally capable of only one orgasm during a love making session.
Since we plan to see each other again soon and will almost certainly have sex, I was wondering what your thoughts are about her claim of automatic stimulation of all erogenous zones in her vaginal canal. My method is normally to start with clitoral, then U spot stimulation, then to add the G spot, all orally or digitally treated, and sometimes the deep spot if I can reach that far (I have normal sized fingers and can reach the cervix on some women but not on others). Normally a woman has climaxed one or more times by the time I penetrate her and then we go for the gold. I normally hold off climaxing until I sense that she has vaginally climaxed or is in the process of doing so, so that we can "come together."
Do you agree with her contention that penile penetration will do the trick alone since it will hit all her spots if done correctly, thus eliminating the need for internal digital stimulation of her G and A spots? I am very aware of the trust and emotional connection feelings that come into play and enhance the experience for her as well as me. But my inclination is to still manually stimulate her internally before penetrating her.
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