Hi RTF!
I am new to this site. I am very much struggling getting over a break-up with an ex I loved very much and where I conducted myself in ways that I'm not proud of. Neither of us felt safe and became the worst versions of ourselves. In my actions I have moved on as if we will not get back together, or at least I'm trying, but I can't shake the nagging feeling that things could be different if we wanted it to. I have trouble accepting the fact that sometimes people just plain screw up relationships and while there can be a blaring opportunity to use it as a learning experience and grow closer, some ex-partners are simply not up for it or not capable of doing that work.
Anyway, thanks in advance for any advice and help!
I am new to this site. I am very much struggling getting over a break-up with an ex I loved very much and where I conducted myself in ways that I'm not proud of. Neither of us felt safe and became the worst versions of ourselves. In my actions I have moved on as if we will not get back together, or at least I'm trying, but I can't shake the nagging feeling that things could be different if we wanted it to. I have trouble accepting the fact that sometimes people just plain screw up relationships and while there can be a blaring opportunity to use it as a learning experience and grow closer, some ex-partners are simply not up for it or not capable of doing that work.
Anyway, thanks in advance for any advice and help!
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