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  • Is It Possible To Be In Love With Two Different People?

    Is it possible to be in love with two different people? And if so, what do you do?

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    Yup. Totally possible. Actually, whenever folks tell me that it's "impossible" to love more than one person I always say "Oh, OK, so which of your kids do you love?"

    That shuts em up.

    Anyway: Love isn't a finite resource and it's totally possible to have romantic feelings for more than one person at a time. Heck, there's a LOT of people out there in "polyamorous" relationships where "loving more than one person at a time" is kind of the definition of what they do.

    But it sounds to me like that's not what you're looking for. You're in the middle of a love rhombus and are trying to figure out which guy to go for.

    And the answer for you is . . .

    You be honest (with the guys involved and with yourself.)

    You don't take any rash action.

    You be careful with all the hearts involved.

    And you stop beating yourself up so much. You're human. You've got a big heart.

    But this is one of those cases where you have to act like an adult and use your words. Sucks, huh?

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      Every woman wants to know whether her man loves her before she commits emotionally and physically to him. The reason she does so could vary from individual to individual and may also be partly because many a men have left their women high and dry after using them. If you want to commit to your man but before that want to test his love for you then you may follow all or some of these tips.

      Act like a delicate darling
      You will have to put up an act that you get offended when someone raises his/her voice or acts in a curt manner. You may also show your displeasure at cuss words and swearing. If your man starts to show his sensitivity to your feelings and stops swearing or using cuss words and makes sure that everyone around you is nice to you then he surely loves you.

      Express your desire to meet his close ones
      You can also express your desire to meet his folks, siblings or his buddies and colleagues. If he readily agrees then he has nothing to hide about his intentions. A man that is not serious about you will never let you in his close inner circle.

      Casual dating only
      Another way of testing his love for you is by suggesting that you want only casual dating and nothing serious. If he readily accepts it then he does not love you. If he is visibly hurt at this suggestion but as time goes on tries to cement the bond between the two of you then he does love you.

      Suggest alternatives
      Whenever he makes some plans try and suggest an alternate plan. If he loves you he will leave every other plan aside and go with your plan. He will do this without a murmur and will make sure that your plan is a success. This is because he loves you.

      Tell him you want to settle down
      To test his love you may suggest that you intend to settle down and maybe at a later date get married. If he jumps up in excitement and proposes to you then he surely loves you. However, if he says that you are too young to settle down or suggests that you wait some time before doing so then he does not love you.

      He stops dating
      Even before you decide and commit to him he will tell you that he is seeing you exclusively. He will spend every weekend and weekday with you and when he is not doing so will let you know where you can reach him. This is a sign that he sees you as his long term partner.

      Resists temptations
      This is a tricky test and this should be tried only when you are getting confusing signals from him. Ask a pretty friend or cousin of yours whom your man does not know to hit on him. If he spurns her overtures and does not get carried away then he is serious about you. He does love you.

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