I've separated with my long term boyfriend Dan six month ago.We have been together for 9 years and have 2 kids together.There was no big reason for a break up(no cheating,no substance abuse etc), just small fights and misunderstandings that drew me away from him. I started dating another guy Jason and instantly fell in love with him.He is nothing like anyone i dated before, a so called bad boy with a "past" (drugs,felonies) however he is on the right path,clean,sober and working hard.We went though a lot while i was trying to understand him and his past mistakes,it have never been easy with him but i was always coming back to his arms because noone ever made me happier. However my ex boyfriend Dan and I have never stopped being friends while spending time with our kids and he was always helping me in everything(fixing my car, helping me move).He suggested a lot of times that we have to try to make it work and he made a lot of changes that i was asking of him to make while we were together(advanced to a better job, started a small business) and now he is asking me to confider to try to get back together,offering me a stable financial future, marriage and being a nice little family again,he loves our kids a lot as well. On the other side this bad boy Jason can't offer me any of that other then his love and attempts to be a better person(stay sober and work), he is nice to my kids and they like him but he is quite distant with them. I am very torn and it is absolutely not about the money( i have a great job and support myself and my kids) but its about stability VS feelings.I am very confused,i would appreciate any advice, maybe someone was in the same boat?
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It will be a better choice to go back to Dan your ex. You already had a relationship with him and know him much better than Jason. The fact is that, there is a huge probability than there are a lot of things you still don't know about Jason, so don't risk going into a relationship that will make you regret in the future.
I see a better future with Dan and not with Jason. So, be wise and make the right decision.
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