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    I've been dating a guy for about 2 months. Everything was going well, we get along, he tells me he loves me and shows it many times, we got pretty serious. But sometimes when he is very busy he doesn't show any care so we talked about it and he said he will try to call me more, text me more etc. I felt like his work and other things were more important so I accepted it... till yesterday. He gave me the keys to his house so i can wait till he comes home so i did. i was bored so i decided to play around on his ipad and just out of curiosity i checked the gallery... the only pics in it were of his ex gfs private parts, pics and videos of them having sex etc. The moment i saw that i just wanted to puke... he has his old phone always around and always charged even tho he doesn't use it so obviously, after seeing that, i checked that phone too... and saw what I expected. more of the ex gf porn. he came home and noticed im in a horrible state but i couldnt tell him i went trough his pics even tho I had no idea what i'll find. I blamed it on a fight we had earlier. We had the ex bf/gf talk and I know a lot about this one particular ex. He told me that when they dated he thought he will marry her. He told me that she's very sweet and asked me how I feel if he said something like that about an ex... didn't care much then. They broke up and got back together many times because her parents hated him and eventually he moved and then she moved too. but earlier this year (few months after their breakup) she came home to visit and for that period of time the were together. then he told her its not gonna work with the distance and the parents and stopped talking. before he met me he tried contacting her but she ignored him... and unfollowed him on social media. he still followes her and likes her stuff tho...
    I asked if he still cares for her and he said no but rn i can't belive him. He tells me he loves me and it seems like he's trying but so many times i feel that he doesn't.... he knew i wasn't okay and tried to fix it somehow... but he doesn't know why i am like this. i can't help to think about his feelings for her and those pictures haunt me. Im not sure i can ever get over them but I'm afraid that breaking up with him might hurt me even more. I want to tell him but don't know how. maybe "find them by mistake" next time i'm at his place. this situation kills me.

  • #2
    I’ve been through something similar, I tried to hold it all in & a week went by and I blew up. I would ask about it. If he still has feelings for her & let him know that it makes you feel like shit & not “enough” if he still needs to look at pics of her. Girl you are more than a rebound & need someone that treats you that way

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    • #3
      That doesn't sound good. If you have already got so many problems at the very beginning of the relationship .. But it is always easy to judge from the outside. Decide for yourself if you want to stay in such a relationship that can end very badly or probably last as a nightmare. Sorry.

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      • #4

        He might still have his ex naked pics on his phone because he might be considering using it against her. I will advice you don't allow him have your naked pics or sex tapes, because he might use it to blackmail you in the future.

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