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  • How to impress my fiancé’s family abroad? Help me out!


    Through an international online dating site called LoveMe, I was able to meet my fiancée who is from Ukraine. I feel like the luckiest man in the world for being able to find an amazing woman like her. The only problem is that her family isn’t really fond of me because of the fact that their daughter is marrying someone from the other side of the world.


    Since our relationship is long distance, seeing each other in person is seriously limited. During the course of our 3-year online relationship, we’ve seen each other in real life for only about 4 times but that has never made things between us complicated. We learned to adapt and adjust with each other despite the distance and conflicting schedules. Here we are now, engaged and happy ready to begin the next chapter of our lives together. The only issue that remains is warming up to her family and have their blessings.


    I’ll be visiting my girlfriend in Ukraine in a few weeks for me to bond with her family more. During my stay there, I would have to impress them somehow for them to bless our upcoming marriage. I’m really not good at these kinds of things so I’m incredibly nervous. Just thinking about spending time with my girlfriend’s family is making me nervous because I really want them to like me.


    I am confident that no other man will be able to love their daughter as much as I do and I want them to see that. I’m completely certain that I will treat my fiancée with all the love and respect she deserves and I will make it my mission to always make her happy. But to do all that, I have to get the approval of her family and for them to trust me.


    To her, family is very important and I want to be close to them for all of us to be close. Any advice and tips will be a huge help. Suggestions are most certainly welcome! Please guys help me out here! Thanks so much!

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    I think it's important that you and your fiancé talk about your concerns about her family before you meet up. Ask her how she feels about it and if she has concerns of her own. She's going to be the best person to give you advice on how to impress her parents, and just keep in mind that if she's going to leave her home for you, it's understandable that her parents would be reluctant to give their approval.Know that their reaction isn't personal, it's because they're concerned about their daughter and only want the best for her, and are going to miss her when she's gone. They will probably like you more if you were to move to be with her, rather than vice versa.

    My best advice to you is to treat her like gold while you're there, be polite and respectful to her parents, but don't come on too strong. Let them warm to you at their own pace, and accept that they may not, and that there is nothing you can do to change that if they don't want to. All you can do is be your best, but forcing yourself onto them will come across as disingenuous. That being said, an offer to help clear the table, do the dishes, etc., can go a long way in most houses I've visited.

    Good luck.

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    • #3
      The best way you can impress her family is to buy them gifts.

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      • #4
        Your girlfriend will be the one to give you a better advice about how you can impress her family. Talk to her about it and she will reveal what you can do to thrill her family.

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