Hi, I really need advice. I know this is long but I need to do the right thing.
So on Friday my partner had a fight. I’ve been struggling with my own issues but I think my partner snapped. She was admitted to the hospitals mental health ward and all I got was that she was doing ok for 2 days. Then today just after I had called to ask about her. She turned up at home with our friend and said she was getting her stuff and moving home. She is unsure if she will come back here or if she will try our relationship again.
ill be honest, I have NEVER been so motivated to get my life together. I am so scared that back home she will get back into dangerous habits she had before we were together. I just could not see what she was going through and now, I don’t know if it’s too late, but I really really need to try now. Even if we permantly seperate.
she kept hugging me before she left. She wanted to stay but knew she needed to figure things out.
is it right to fight for her? Or should I step right back? I’m afraid that if I try she will come back from guilt. But I don’t want her to see me “move on” and give up if she wants something.
i have hurt her and she has hurt me. But I hurt her and didn’t help her or see when she needed me. I know that guilt and self loathing will fix nothing but Ivan afraid she will get sick and I will not be able to help and I am terrified of a life without her. I love her and if I end up with someone else I will not love them like I love her.
please help me!
So on Friday my partner had a fight. I’ve been struggling with my own issues but I think my partner snapped. She was admitted to the hospitals mental health ward and all I got was that she was doing ok for 2 days. Then today just after I had called to ask about her. She turned up at home with our friend and said she was getting her stuff and moving home. She is unsure if she will come back here or if she will try our relationship again.
ill be honest, I have NEVER been so motivated to get my life together. I am so scared that back home she will get back into dangerous habits she had before we were together. I just could not see what she was going through and now, I don’t know if it’s too late, but I really really need to try now. Even if we permantly seperate.
she kept hugging me before she left. She wanted to stay but knew she needed to figure things out.
is it right to fight for her? Or should I step right back? I’m afraid that if I try she will come back from guilt. But I don’t want her to see me “move on” and give up if she wants something.
i have hurt her and she has hurt me. But I hurt her and didn’t help her or see when she needed me. I know that guilt and self loathing will fix nothing but Ivan afraid she will get sick and I will not be able to help and I am terrified of a life without her. I love her and if I end up with someone else I will not love them like I love her.
please help me!
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