Hi guys, husband said he wanted to separate 2 weeks ago, we love each other but we argue constantly and clash over everything. We had agreed to go to counselling after a previous big fallout but he doesn't even want to do that now. I have said to him I would be willing to try again so he knows how I feel but we both want to at least remain friends ( we have 2 kids). He is working away and has not searched for a place to move into as he says internet is rubbish. I have said he can come back here to the spare room and find somewhere from there. I have also offered to collect him from the airport. I am trying to be positive and change the way I am with him so he knows that I am really trying to be friends.
The only thing I am worried about now is when he comes back how awkward will it be? What are we going to talk about as we have drifted so far apart we don't really know each other any more! Do I just act normal but nicer? I don't want to put on a fake, all-smiley, all-happy act that looks fake. I don't think either of us want to hash out old issues as we did that on a regular basis so what do we talk about???? I think it will be easier once he moves out but I don't know how long that will take......
Any tips would be great!
The only thing I am worried about now is when he comes back how awkward will it be? What are we going to talk about as we have drifted so far apart we don't really know each other any more! Do I just act normal but nicer? I don't want to put on a fake, all-smiley, all-happy act that looks fake. I don't think either of us want to hash out old issues as we did that on a regular basis so what do we talk about???? I think it will be easier once he moves out but I don't know how long that will take......
Any tips would be great!
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