Wondering if I can get some advice here.
I am new to this area I moved to for my job. Banker that deals with me in my business is very friendly and single...(YAY)
He is so sweet. I am manager/designer of a florist shop. I have made some really terrific designs for him and he loves my work... gushes over my work, really.
He recently made an order for his mom and made sure I knew he was single, he said no luck with the last gal, lol.
I told him he was lookin' at the wrong gal...and called him sweetie ...for fun.
He was very animated on the phone with me, complimenting me and my work over and over again. Later on, a day or so later, he saw me in the grocery store and actually bumped my cart with his basket while I was oblivious that he was there...lol... surprise surprise!
I smiled said hey how are ya...some chit chat...smiling...and I left.
The next day I called him to follow up on his mom's delivery. He thanked me over and over again and gave me the credit for the success of the arrangement even tho it was a wireout to another florist..lol
My question is...should I email him and thank him for being so kind as to say "hi" bumping into me at the grocery store, that he put a smile on my face, so nice to be recognized and spoken to in a place where I am the stranger?
or should I wait to see if he makes a move at the next business after hours get together? He goes to all of them.
My way of thinking would be that a contact outside of work may open the door for him to approach me if he is interested knowing that I am open to him (hence the email, opening the door?)
He might be more inclined to approach me then? I think he may be a bit gun shy right now as his last interest blew him off.
I just wanted to let him know I am approachable and interested in him.
What is the best way to do that? Without being too forward and I want him to know it is fine for him to come to me.
I think in his position (VP at bank) he needs to feel that he took the initiative, but also needs to know I am open to him that way, not just in business.
Help??
I am new to this area I moved to for my job. Banker that deals with me in my business is very friendly and single...(YAY)
He is so sweet. I am manager/designer of a florist shop. I have made some really terrific designs for him and he loves my work... gushes over my work, really.
He recently made an order for his mom and made sure I knew he was single, he said no luck with the last gal, lol.
I told him he was lookin' at the wrong gal...and called him sweetie ...for fun.
He was very animated on the phone with me, complimenting me and my work over and over again. Later on, a day or so later, he saw me in the grocery store and actually bumped my cart with his basket while I was oblivious that he was there...lol... surprise surprise!
I smiled said hey how are ya...some chit chat...smiling...and I left.
The next day I called him to follow up on his mom's delivery. He thanked me over and over again and gave me the credit for the success of the arrangement even tho it was a wireout to another florist..lol
My question is...should I email him and thank him for being so kind as to say "hi" bumping into me at the grocery store, that he put a smile on my face, so nice to be recognized and spoken to in a place where I am the stranger?
or should I wait to see if he makes a move at the next business after hours get together? He goes to all of them.
My way of thinking would be that a contact outside of work may open the door for him to approach me if he is interested knowing that I am open to him (hence the email, opening the door?)
He might be more inclined to approach me then? I think he may be a bit gun shy right now as his last interest blew him off.
I just wanted to let him know I am approachable and interested in him.
What is the best way to do that? Without being too forward and I want him to know it is fine for him to come to me.
I think in his position (VP at bank) he needs to feel that he took the initiative, but also needs to know I am open to him that way, not just in business.
Help??
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