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  • 5 Reasons Why The Holiday Season Is A Great Time To Meet Women

    I realize you've probably heard a million times about how the holiday season is the best time to meet a woman.

    That's for good reason. Seriously, it seems like women who don't have a boyfriend this time of year find themselves on a mission to get one.

    At the very least, the pressure is on in their minds to be seeing someone, if nothing else.

    So WHY is this? Ah...that's the part that nobody ever really takes the time to figure out.

    But knowing the reasons why could add up to a tremendous advantage, making sure the woman you have your eye on wants to be with YOU this holiday season.

    So with that in mind, I've identified five factors that when considered in context provide a pretty good explanation for the whole phenomenon at play here:


    1) Cold Weather

    If you're in the temperate zone of the Northern Hemisphere, which most people reading this are, this is the time of year when the air starts to get a certain chill in it.

    So for starters here, raise your hand if every woman you've ever met gets cold before you do, and you end up giving her your jacket rather than vice-versa.

    I'm raising my hand, in case you're wondering. I mean, let's face it...the idea of a man asking a woman for her jacket seems flat-out silly, doesn't it?

    Women, besides tending to be a bit more cold-natured than we as men are, crave affection...at least typically.

    Add it all up, and their minds are very much on finding someone to "snuggle" with about now. And whether you love the word "snuggle" or loath it, I'm sure being the man she does so with wouldn't suck.


    2) Togetherness

    There's no doubt whatsoever that the holidays are pretty much built on spending time with people you care about.

    Show me someone who's alone this time of year, and I'll show you someone who's either a sociopath or miserable.

    OK, so maybe since you're a dude you can blow off the possibility that you may be going solo this Thanksgiving weekend or New Year's, if not spending it with your bros.

    But for women the thought of being alone on any important day this time of year is nothing short of disastrous.

    In fact, the only thing more heinous for her than spending the holidays alone might be spending it with annoying relatives.

    I had years where at least two women were interested in spending Thanksgiving with me "solo", and I had to choose. Just sayin'...

    Whether a woman digs the company of her relatives or not, you can bet your bottom dollar she'd much rather mix in some romance and spend her time with someone she's actually hot for.


    3) Social Events

    Fact: There is a larger concentration of parties and special events planned around holiday time than at any other time during the year.

    Women particularly dread going to these social gatherings alone, lest they look like an "old maid"--perhaps even being the only one there without a date.

    Believe me, women will beg, borrow or steal to avoid that scenario.

    What's going on here actually transcends the concept of "togetherness" inherently fostered by the holiday season itself.

    This is more in line with entering the lunchroom in college with your tray only to find you don't know anyone, and therefore having nobody to eat lunch with.

    The horror.

    I mean, don't be surprised if women you haven't heard from for weeks or even months ring you up inviting you to join them at some Christmas party.


    4) Memories

    Maybe the first three were obvious to you, or maybe not. But here's one you probably haven't thought about.

    Women, being the sensitive creatures they are, can be very sentimental. The holidays are a virtual "memory factory".

    Some of those memories will be pleasant and others will be sad.

    Whenever emotions are running at a high level, it's particularly nice in a woman's mind to have someone she's romantically interested in around to be affectionate with.

    Sure, this also kind of ties in to the idea of not being alone during the holidays, but there's a decidedly different twist going on in this case. Can you see it?

    Now that you have a heads up regarding this factor, you're much better positioned to be "Mr. Amazing" for the right woman. You'll just "get it" at precisely the time she needs you to...and she'll love you for it.


    5) The Very Nature Of Femininity

    Yep, women are sentimental. They're affectionate. And they need a jacket sooner than men do.

    But that's not the whole story.

    Women are also all about being agents of joy, hospitality and playfulness. Add it all up and the holidays are pretty much their playground.

    Believe me, they want a great guy to bestow all those amazing feminine gifts upon. It might as well be you. Relax and enjoy.


    So having discovered exactly why women are so bent on getting a man in their lives around holiday time, are you more stoked than ever about going out and meeting some great ones?

    My sincere wish is that you are. My own personal memories of time spent with women between Thanksgiving and New Year's are almost universally positive.

    Go give a great woman something to truly love about the holidays, and you'll surely enjoy the results.

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